Back story: SS12 is/was the middle child. BM still cuddles OSS18 on her lap and baby talks him. She is alllllllllllll about OSS. YSS 10 is and total attention hog. Always dancing, singing, asking questions, and NEVER shuts up. So BM gives YSS lots of praise and such. She recently spent $400 on a gift for YSS(which we sent back) and then sent MSS a box of Axe stuff from walmart.com grand total of $9.44. BM blows MSS off a lot. YSS will be on the phone with BM for 2 hours, MSS maybe 10 minutes. So for sure MSS is screwed up.

I know this is my problem. SS12 has a habit of SOBBING to get attention. Friday he called DH sobbing after 10 minutes of football practice. Why? They made him run. He has never ran so far as I know. He has always gotten out of PE by crying. And he is at least 45lbs overweight. We took him to the gym for a while but he just cried about how hard it was after doing the recumbent bike for 10 minutes.

SS12 just finished screaming, slamming doors, threatening everyone, and sobbing. Why? Because the other kids finished the milk and there is no more until I go to the store. I will go when I please. You know why? Because I bought 4 gallons on Friday at 2pm and now ALL are gone. Mostly due to SS12 who will have 10,000 bowls of cereal a day.

After a weeks delay due to blah blah blah from BM the skids will be back Saturday. However. According to BM SS12 wants to live with her. Now SS12 is especially defiant and causes lots of issues. He flunks school a lot, causes problems between DH and BM and DH and me and generally makes life hard.