Last night I went to church women's group. I've been at this church a little less than a year and am friendly with the women but not friends. There are about 40 of them and I am the only SM. All nuclear families.

Well last night a large group I was in started chatting about the new movie Cinderella. I tuned out as I haven't seen it and was finding the whole evening boring. Then I realized they were discussing the wicked SM. One woman seemed embarassed about her remarks about wicked SM in general and so kinda laughed and said to me, 'oh but I'm sure you aren't wicked!'