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LONG SORRY BM randomly decides to stop communicating, and blames FDH!

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Submitted by theoutsider on Tue, 07/23/2013 - 7:01pm

FDH has been communicating ONLY through email since January.
BM would call, FDH wouldn't answer, it would go to voicemail, if it needed a response, FDH would email it.
BM would text, FDH would email a response.
Finally BM started emailing back and forth about three months after FDH started doing this.

Then suddenly a month ago, she had a melt down.

Went to a movie (ME, SD12, SD8,SS10, FDH)

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Submitted by theoutsider on Fri, 07/05/2013 - 6:02pm

SO we went to a movie today, (FDH and I both took the day off to have a long weekend)

And the line up at the theater (FDH, SS10, SD8, SD12, ME)

Then FDH tried to reach over all the kids to hold my hand over their heads.
I ignored him, then SD12 said "Dad is trying to hold your hand"
I responded, "If Dad had sat next to me he could have held my hand."

Being ignored by FDH family

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Submitted by theoutsider on Thu, 07/04/2013 - 3:03pm

Again, ignored.

FSD8 and FSS10 rode on FDH's SIL's float in the parade. I dropped off the two kids to ride on the parade, and FDH's brother and his wife completely ignored me. Then as FDH, FSD12, and I are watching the parade. FMIL and FSILs(2) come walking up, then stop short when they see I am with FDH and FSD12. All three ignored me the entire hour long parade....

The kids and food

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Submitted by theoutsider on Tue, 07/02/2013 - 8:03am

I've posted about the kids making comments about my ffood before but last night I made VERY KID FRIENDLY pizza wraps. Pepperoni, cheese, and pizza sauce rolled into a tortilla.

The kids looked at them coming out of the oven
"I don't like that"

Took a bite and spit it out on the plate and asked for strawberries out of the fridge.

Called the wraps a 3 out of 5

I kept my cool til the end of the meal

"you might as well throw the rest away."

FDH slept with BM after she left him

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Submitted by theoutsider on Fri, 06/28/2013 - 8:03pm

I started to make a comment on someone else's blog but I got to writing a lot and thought this might "take over" the blog so I thought I would give it its own space.

FDH told me aa while ago, something that happened right around the time of his divorce with BM.

I warn you, this is really messed up, and I still can't get my head around it,...maybe because I am a woman,... I don't know....

Karma is a B!T@#

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Submitted by theoutsider on Wed, 06/26/2013 - 7:17am

Background:
BM had an affair while married to FDH, with another married man (just so happened to be the sheriff of the county she lived in :jawdrop: .
When this other married man's WIFE found out, there was a huge cat fight-the man got in the way-and he was charged with assault (assault means threatening, he was accused of hitting her in the process, but plead guilty to assault).

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