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What I want to say to BM

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Submitted by theoutsider on Thu, 06/13/2013 - 1:57pm

BM is a smile Stop acting like you are mother of the year and are raising three kids all by yourself!
YOU don't have custody! You walked away from your kids, you chose to leave my FDH so stop telling the kids that he cheated on you! You cheated in him PUBLICLY with a PUBLIC FIGURE who was also married!
Stop telling your 12 year old she is getting fat! They are called boobs!
Stop telling the kids I am a fat b!t@#! Again they are called boobs! And other than ignoring you, I have NEVER done anything to you.

Bit of a vent, I just need it

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Submitted by theoutsider on Fri, 05/24/2013 - 7:48pm

A few things I just want to say.

I was rewarded arty work for good performance and given a half day off today as a reward. I stupidly told FDH of my reward and he suggested...in front of the kids...that since I was off I could do a, b, c, with the kids that they have been dieing to do... So of course set me up to be a bitch,....
I did what they wanted ONLY because they got picked up.at 5pm today by their mom for summer visitation, but you better believe FDH and I will have a talk about volunteering my time with others around...

Puppy

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Submitted by theoutsider on Tue, 05/14/2013 - 6:23am

We are getting a puppy! I am so excited! I love animals and FDH knows this. Even though he is in farm mentality of animals are food, not friends... And Never Ever can the dog come inside the house... I'm so excited. The oldest girl has always wanted a dog. FDH has always told her no.
But out of the blue he announced he had talked to someone who had a drive and dump in their yard and we were getting the puppy!

can't BM see she's only hurting her kids?

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Submitted by theoutsider on Sat, 05/11/2013 - 11:06am

FDH got a cell phone for the kids to take back and forth between homes... so he doesn't have to call BM cell phone and she doesn't have to call his to speak with the kids.
but everytime we call the phone when there at BM's place the phone goes straight to voicemail. she turns it off so no one can call her kids and her kids are not allowed to turn the phone on and call their dad if they want to.
the kids come back and have told us that she purposely turned the phone off and says things like,
" this is my time I get you now"

Including skids in wedding

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Submitted by theoutsider on Mon, 05/06/2013 - 7:56pm

I would like to go away, like elope, just the two of us on a beach somewhere...

FDH wants to include the kids....

I like them, the kids, but I want a full week wedding/honeymoon were it it's just us...

The kids live with us full time. We have all 5 gone on vacations before together... FDH and I have never been on a vacation together, just us. And I think us getting married is as good a time as any...

I walked into the other room

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Submitted by theoutsider on Sun, 05/05/2013 - 1:06pm

We are currently over at FDH parents house to visit the kids great grandmother who is visiting from the nursing home..

The kids were playing dominos and the ten year old boy kept losing and throwing the dominos in the direction of his great grandmother who is wheelchair bound and can barely move...

Multiple adults told him to stop throwing the dominos, but this went on for four games until greatgrandma said, "if you do that again, I'm not going to play with you" so I spoke up and said, "no, if he does it again, he is going to sit out a game"...

What to do when BM

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Submitted by theoutsider on Sun, 04/28/2013 - 7:11pm

FDH AND BM just made a new visitation order (they didn't have one before)...they verbally agreed in mediation that BM gets the kids the day before their birthday and takes them to school on their birthday. FDH time is the day of birthday after school... BM agreed to this in mediation...court papers are being drawn up and legalized...
Ss10 birthday is tuesday. She informed FDH just today that "her version" if the paper work she just signed says she gets them the day of the birthday and that is what she is following... FDH has not seen this paper, has not signed it...

I wanted to bitch slap the gift right out of his hand

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Submitted by theoutsider on Mon, 04/22/2013 - 6:05pm

FSS 10, saw me cross stitching something for my sister and asked if he could make one with his football team logo.
I explained it is really hard and takes a long time, but he insisted he wanted to do it.
He got frustrated, screwed up several times, cried a bit (all three are in counseling, I know crying is not normal for something like this) but FDH finally said, after an hour, to put it down and go to bed, that he needs to accept that it won't happen tonight...

I had to be the one to tell FSD eventhough BM was right there!

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Submitted by theoutsider on Tue, 04/16/2013 - 9:27pm

so the kids in concert was tonight and lo and behold BM shows up. I am fine with playing Mother of the Year running around taking pictures and whatever.... whatever she wants to do. However, FSD was sitting down very high upon a riser she is almost 13 years old and was wearing a dress everyone can see up her skirt....

FDH and I are sitting very far away from her but BM is standing right up close taking pictures of all three of her kids... and does not even notice that her oldest daughters legs are spread eagle showing everybody her business...

Every single time they come back

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Submitted by theoutsider on Sun, 04/14/2013 - 8:40pm

The kids came back from BM this weekend and they said, AGAIN, "mom called you the witch word but with a b"

Really?! BM?! I know that you hate me for no reason, but do you really have to call me that to your kids multiple times every weekend ??

I can't believe that she hates me that much that she says that to her kids.

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