Well i stumbled upon this site by accident, but glad i did! Im hoping to get some advice as i see that alot of you have similar issues. I met my bf about a year ago and found out that he has 6 yes 6 kids. Three are to his highschool gf ages 12,10,7 the other 2 are to his ex wife and she made it too difficult for him to see them and the youngest will be 3 and he and her mom broke up a few months before we met and had been together about 5yrs. His 10 and 7 yr old stay with us for the summer they arent too bad but have a hard time adjusting to us being a couple.