The Skids went back home last night. After a heated discussion with DH about his kids being his responsibility he took a few days off of work to stay home and watch his 3 demons while I took SS7 and BD3 out. I felt relief and happiness after DH came home from the airport without the Skids and my home is mines again. But... Fast forward to 10oclock at night.

They have been causing hell. I can't take it. It’s only been 3 and half days with 5 more to go and I just can't deal. Maybe it’s because I'm not use to dealing with teenagers I don't know. I am about ready to burst. These are the things they have done that really piss me off.

1. They listened at my door while DH and I were making love and we heard them laughing. DH had to get up and handle them.

2. They dig their hands in BD3s snack bowl or ask her for some when they have their own snacks in the kitchen.

DH said they were coming Saturday turns out ooops he meant Friday which is tomorrow! I already know it will be hell when they get here. They think I made DH give them new rules and I know they will be intent on breaking them. I feel bad for little SS7 because he is sweet and well behaved while his 3 teenage sisters are like wild monkeys. I'm thinking I may just try to be gone as much as possible while they are here so I get some stress off of me. I was thinking of taking the little ones to chuck e. chesses one night.

So I had yet another talk with DH yesterday. I explained to him how I felt he threw me under the bus by telling the step kids that the rules where from me and not from us. He got upset with me and told me to stop nagging him. Apparently he feels that ever since I have been on this website I have been nagging him about his kids. When in reality I have been actually standing up for myself and my home and for DH as well. I tried to explain that to him and he says still all that he hears is nagging but if it bothers me so much he will talk to them.