BM's lawyer finally sent us papers to go to court. BM wants full physical and legal custody. BF would continue to have EOW and alternating holidays and such -the basic parenting arrangement. In her affidavit, BM states than BF is still angry about the divorce and refuses to compromise - interpretation refuses to do it her way! BM also states that she needs BF help in defraying the cost of the child care, day care expenses and medical insurance and medical expanses. BM states BF has never contributed to baby's daycare or medical expenses.

BF got an email from BM today letting him know that she and baby are going on vacation for a week in October. We already knew that but we did not know where she was going. Now we do! Back to the place she went while married to BF to have multiple affairs and attend orgie parties. My concern at this point is that she is bringing baby. BF emailed her back and offered to take baby while she is gone adn I am sure she will refuse but at least he offered. Baby is still pulling on his ear so we are concerned that a plane ride will aggrevate his ear troubles.

How can BM be broke when she bought a brand new honda last October and traded it for a Jaguar within the last week? She pays the mortgage of about $1400 on the marital home but lives in a townhouse with her new man that costs over 2 grand a month just for rent. BM buys baby's clothes at Target and Wal-mart and buys pretty cheap diapers. BM does not have to provide baby with anything while he is at our home. We provide it all and it does not break the bank.

I do not get it at all.

I picked up FSS 9 months yestersday and BM said he just woke up it was almost 5:30 pm. He slept on and off - mostly on - all the way home, about 80 minutes. BF fed him dinner and he was fine but a little fussy which is normal the first night we have him. FSS went to bed about 10pm and I thought he was down for the night. I was wrong! Between 10pm and 2:30 am he was up and down every 30 minutes or less. He would fall asleep in my arms and I would put him in his crib and he wold wake up almost immediately. Finally at 2:30 am, I handed him off to BF.