We have decided to have another baby. We already have a 1 year old son together. With him we told "her" a few months into the pregnancy. She did everything possible to make our life hell during that time. She drug us through court and fought with us constantly about trivial things. I really think that it was jelousy. I just don't know what to do. I almost want to wait till like 6 or 7 months into the pregnancy to even tell my stepson. Because I know that he will tell her and I really don't need the stress at such a fragile state.

Okay last week my stepsons mom called to ask if we could switch days days and times due to him starting school. We agreed. We usually have him on wednesday nights but had switched to tuesday nights instead. Well tuesday came and we completely spaced it out. We remember 20 minutes after we were suppose to pick him up. SO we called and apologized for the confusion and asked if we could come pick him up still. She said NO! And was rude to my husband. We did not want to fight so we asked if we could make up the time another night since she would not agree to let us get him that night.