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Submitted by Sabina on Sun, 09/08/2019 - 7:25pm

OK...my last blog many of you brought to my attention that my DH may be cheating with his secrets. All these dinners with SD's may not be with just them.  I totally agree now.  I have been watching and more aware.  Wondering, has anyone on here ever used or known of anyone using these websites such as cheater lookup; truthfinder; spokeo?  Is this stuff even legal, do we have any lawyers that can give advice.  I have no access to his phone, he keeps it with him 24/7 plus has it locked and blacked out so you cannot see who it texting.  I could really use some suggestions here.

In an unusual situation

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Submitted by Sabina on Wed, 08/21/2019 - 2:14pm

It has been a very long time since I have been on here.  A lot has happened.  I really don't have anyone to talk to about this.  To give some history, I have two SD's, one 17 that still lives at home.  One that is 22 and lives nearby going to college, works maybe 8 hours a week.  Her dad pays for everything.  DH and I married 5 years ago and have had many struggles around the girls, to make a long story very short.  They never had house cleaning rules, grandma used to clean their rooms until a short time after we were married and I suggested it was time they do it.  That put tension between

Home for the Holidays

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Submitted by Sabina on Mon, 12/19/2016 - 2:12pm

I live 45 minutes away from my biological daughter. She has 3 auto immune diseases and has chronic pain, so daily life is a bit challenging for her. I mentioned to my husband that I wish she could come over Christmas Eve and spend the night so she doesn't have to be by herself Christmas morning. I explained she doesn't like to sleep on the couch because it isn't comfortable due to her pain issues. My husband said, "ya, we have a big house, but not big enough for company".

Struggling with teanage step daughters - HELP

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Submitted by Sabina on Fri, 05/20/2016 - 3:23pm

So glad I found this site. I am a new step mother going on 2 years of marriage. Girls are 14 and 18. I moved into their home once we got married. I hope to get some advice on one big issue I am experiencing. Here is a brief background. Girls bio mother is deceased, my mother died when I was a baby so I thought I would at least be able to relate to this. I also had a step mother growing up, so I kinda thought I knew my boundaries. I leave it to Dad to do the correcting. I also have a biological daughter who is now an adult. Here is my biggest struggle.