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God works in funny ways
So wednesday this week was the first time since we heard from SD after a fun filled weekend of kissing her ass, she still went home and made up stories about what happened at Daddy's when all she did was have fun. This time she brought our friends into it. I just lost it while DH was on the phone with SD. She finally heard how much she is hurting me and DH. Then BM got on the phone and the fight began.
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The story continues
Yesterday my DH decided to call SD11 he hadn't spoken to her since last thursday when she decided to make false accusations about my DH and decided not to come over on her regular visitation day, when they talked he told to her we are going to have a long chat about what's been going on since the beginning of August.When DH was done talking to her from work he asked that she call me. When I answered I was really short with her too on the phone because I have been so hurt with her split personality and her false accusations. She could tell that I was upset.
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SD11 Lies Strike Again
The weekend before last our SS11 came over for the weekend. We went to my mother's trailer and SS11 and my nephew3 got to go trick or treating and to a haunted manion. We had a blast! Also that weekend we went to a wedding on the sunday again had a good time. We live in the country were there is only 3 houses on our street and they are all owned by family. The wedding we attended was just around the corner on a another counrty road with no traffic. Well there was 6 of us going to this wedding including myself, DH, 2 of DH aunts and DH mother.
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Stopped Listening
Up until recently my SD11 and I use to be really close. Now we aren't that close anymore. She has bonded with her BM which is awesome! but BM is jealous or just doesn't like having another mom in her dtr life and now that DH and I are married things have gotten worse. I don't know if BM has alot to do with this, but SD11 doesn't listen to anything I tell her. We were heading to the trailer and she had packed 3 bags of Barbie toys. I went into her room on 3 different occasions and asked her not to bring more than one bag.
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Shut up!!!
Why does my SD11 insist on telling us things about her BM and Step dad. I don't care what they do or what their likes and dislikes are. Why does she insist on talking to me or telling me about them. I don't want her going to her BM and telling her all about me. One thing that my SD told me about her mother was just shocking. Someone had called my SD11 a BITCH on her school bus. I don't like that fact that someone called my SD a bitch, but I wouldn't have advised her to tell the other childl what my SD BM told her.
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The Letter
Dear daddy,
When I try to talk to you about the things that upset me it makes me cry and it is hard to breath. I want you to read this letter and understand what I am trying to say. I do not want to talk about my letter with you and Rachel without mommy being with me.
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Never been so hurt
Well it's been 3 weeks since we have seen our step daughter. DH and I went to nova Scotia without her and had a great time, but when we got home things are still continuing with SD11. She sent us a very upsetting email some of it true and some of it not. We are supposed to see her this thursday and I don't know what to do or say to her. I don't even know how to act. everything in her letter was selfish and spoiled, some of it wasn't even the whole truth. She states that her dad never spends time with her and that we always have company over.
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Gone too Far
Well he is another painful experience as a step parent. My SD has always wanted to go away somewhere out of Ontario. She has never travelled, so I thought that it would be a great experience if we take a family trip (our first one as a family) to go out to Nova Scotia where my grandparents live. Well a week before we are getting ready to leave my sd11 BM emails my DH that our dtr doesn't want to go to Nova Scotia that she feels she will be uncomfortable. We have no idea why she would be uncomfortable. We have taken several family trips within Ontario and never had any problems.
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Blah Blah Blah
I hate it when my SD11 comes home from BM she talks and talks about what she did with her mom. I just try to ignore it, but sometimes I want to scream "I don't care what you do at your mom's" I just hope that when she goes to her BM's she talks non-stop about SM. We recently had an issue where SD11 would go home to her mom's and tell her mom negative things about BD and SM house, which could be misinterpeted. IE. SM yelled at me while we were in the pool. What really happened was she was doing something dangerous and was told to stop several times and didn't.
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Discipline
Why is it that when I try to discipline my SD11 when she is at my house that my DH always sticks up for her. Will he ever take my side or will he ever discipline her? I Feel like between my DH and BM I have no rights or no say in this childs rules. It is my house too and if I don't think she is acting appropriately I have the right to tell her. DH needs to shut up!
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