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O/T about new neighbors

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I need some advice on this. My new neighbors that moved in about 2 weeks ago or so. Anyway yesterday for the first time we really talked which lead to her talking about her and her husband. She laid it all out on me that they were having problems but she was very vague about what she was having problems with. She was all over the place, never stuck to one subject about anything then she would say I don;t want to talk about but then start talking about how done she is with him and he needs go. she did this all day and night.

SS14 football game

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It went ok except they moved the location and bm didn't bother telling us! We went to another game and was confused, dh called her and well we were at the wrong game! Dh told the ticket office what happened and he didn't even think twice and gave us our money back said he hears that a lot!

So we get to the right game and we sit one row up from them b/c bm's sis and her dh was there and wanted to talk to us. Bm was nice about everything to our face and even texted dh to tell him to tell me that she enjoyed talking to me. :sick:

Well tonight is the ball game

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tonight is ss14's football game. It is going to be cold. Anyway we will see how it goes. I'll let you guys know if bm tries to sit next to dh. I know she will try saying the boys want to be next to him but the boys are 13 and 11, why in the world can they not walk to dh instead of bm having to be right next to him?

Sick skids?

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I have a question, How do you ladies and gents do when your skids are sick? What I mean is that if it is your time or your dh's time with the kids and they are sick, do you or your dh's let the bm take care if them or do you or your dh's get them and take care of them yourselves? I ask b/c dh lets bm take care of the boys when they are sick his logic is that we don;t need to get sick and if they aren't here then it can;t be spread. I understand where he is coming from so I let him do what he wants. however there is a part of me that thinks he should have to take care of them too.

I'm trying to udnerstand this?

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I don't understand why in the world that kids get away with the crap they get away with.

In one blog I noticed that the SD got to choose what radio station they were listening too when it is the SM car! I mean she is a CHILD! I understand every once in while as treat but every time!?

that is just an example. I think we are giving our kids and especially our skids WAY too much chooses and power in our lives. When they get to be adults they can do what they choose but while they are living with me that is not going to happen!

I know this is of topic but I need help

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I need to come up with a very touching thing to say about my dd in the year book next to her baby pic. I am not the best at writing. I am at a lose to make it sound nice. I want to say something about how wonderful a jernory, see I can;t even spell, it was raising her and that I know she will go on to do wonderful things. I really can;t think of anything creative to say. I am paying $30 to do this so I want this si be good. Thanks you so much Smile

Oh boy ex husbands ex wife!

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My exH has not seen or had any contact with our kids since they were very little in short is has been 15 years! anyway out of the blue he starts to write the kids b/c he is in prison and is bored. Dd will have NOTHING to do with him, ds started to write him till he got bored. Now his ex wife contacted me on face book, not sure if she wants a bashing fest about him or what? :? I am not going to do it though, I'll talk to her about her kids (my kids half brother and sisters) um really how should I take this? I don;t know what to think? :? :? :? :?

Thought I would post somehting light and funny about bm!

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5 Years ago i got implants and I was still going to my doc as I ahd to go fora full year after ward. We had a cell phone that was paid up till the end of that month as we got a better plan and company. We gave that phone to the skids so they could call dh till it was shut off. We knew that bm would use it too but we weren't worried as it was paid and no fear of her running it up. Anyway I forgot to tell my plastic surgeon that I have a new # and he called my other phone.

Sorry another CS question about the fee.

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A while back bm brought a case against dh b/c she said he was 6 weeks behind. We knew we were ahead and told her so and to not open the case as it will only hurt her. Well of course she didn;t listen and they did an investigation and what do you know dh was 1k ahead and she didn;t get any money for 6 weeks.

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