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Tell me if you think it is weird for a father to sleep with his daughter of 13?

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Tell me if you think it is weird for a father to sleep with his daughter of 13?

I stopped back in at home this morning before I went to work and my husband was in daughter's bed with her. I don't know that he has ever done this before, I know he used to sleep w/her when she was younger and his ex-wife (3rd wife) didn't like it.

Part of me thinks it's not right, but then again mothers and daughters often sleep together - I know my sis and I did sleep with our mom once in awhile up to the age of 15 (I don't remember exact age).

email from BM to BF about SD not coming to our house anymore - need advice/interpretation......

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(BM) "I went with Dayna to here counciling appointment yesterday, and
somethings were talked about that were going to be talked about if you were there,
and I have becaome the messanger. The councilor feels that you and Dayna
need to start spending some more time together before it gets to the point
were it has been so lang that it is ackward. So would you be up for having
dayna like everyother week end when you are not working?
I am now also going to explain some of her feelings as to what she

Bio Mom going to court again? Too many rules for the SD in our house!

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Has anyone gone through this?

We have 50/50 for placement and support payments.

The Bio mom is taking the Bio dad back to court for 100% placement and support payments due to the fact the child does not want to come back to our house because we have too many rules.

I believe the child does not have a choice unless she is emancipated and the Bio mom is in contempt of the courts by letting her make a parental decision such as choosing who to live with full-time.

what should I do, what should I feel

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My SD informed her biomom on monday that she is not coming back to our house (we have 50/50). I believe it is because our house is strict with rules the rules are no tv, no computer, no music until homework is finished - then after homework she can do what she wants. She has rules to clean/pick up her bedroom and bathroom - but those rules only have to be followed if she wants to earn money - not required. She has no rules at her biomom's house.

bad stepmom?

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I feel terrible, my 12 yr old step daughter drives me crazy. I feel like I am always short and curt with her just because I am sick of her thinking she knows everything, she argues everything I say, says no to everything and then tells us how it is supposed to be done. I can't stand it, she is also very disrespectful to her dad. I try to set rules for her in the house and she does them for the most part except the keeping the room/bathroom clean rule. She even gets paid if this one is done - it doesn't have to be deep cleaned just picked-up, no clutter.

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