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The BS will never end

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Submitted by nengooseus on Wed, 07/13/2016 - 2:03pm

When last I blogged, our court date had resulted in a last-minute agreement being worked out between BM and DH. We still don't have a written agreement, mind you, but there is a working draft being floated and a control date with the court that's next week, I think. The agreement isn't a good one, regardless. DH bent much too much and got much too little for my taste, but ultimately that's his deal and not mine.

Infuriating BM freaking subpoenaed me!

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Submitted by nengooseus on Tue, 06/14/2016 - 2:00pm

Yup. I've been subpoenaed as a witness for Infuriating BM in her obscene attempt to reduce my husband's parenting time and to increase the amount of child support she receives.

Realistically, I would have been there anyway, but now I can't be in the courtroom because I *might* be called as a witness. I suspect it's more of an intimidation tactic than anything else, but it's still a thing. I can't imagine I would have anything to say that would benefit her.

Interestingly enough, the subpoena came to me at home, and DH was the one actually served.

Busy Week in Skid Town!

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Submitted by nengooseus on Fri, 06/03/2016 - 9:34am

When last I left you, we had just discovered that Infuriating BM's new husband, who she glorifies with the skids (SS 11 and SS almost 7) and thinks should take custody of skids during her upcoming deployment, has a heretofore unknown child (3.5 years old) for whom he pays nearly $1000 a month in child support, but does not see. He was also headed to court with his ex-wife (who we know) to increase visitation and decrease child support (which is how the existence of this other kid came to light).

So much more has happened!

Lol! Don't know how BM's gonna spin this one!

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Submitted by nengooseus on Wed, 06/01/2016 - 4:40am

We're a month out from court with The infuriating BM from hell. She's wanting to reduce DH's parenting time with both their kids due to PA that led SS 6.5 to refuse all visitation for 6 months, even though SD 11 never missed a visit. She's also wanting the kids to stay with her husband (stepdad) when she deploys in July.

The weekend went off (almost) without a hitch!

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Submitted by nengooseus on Mon, 05/16/2016 - 10:21am

After refusing all contact with DH since July 2015, SS 6.5 was with us for a full visitation (4 days) this weekend.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not thrilled about having him back in the house because he's a jerk,even on his best day, but DH is thrilled, which is good.

There weren't any hitches until yesterday afternoon when BM called the kids for BS reasons. Both kids made it clear that they didn't need to be talking to her, and that her reason for calling was contrived, at best, but the boy got upset afterward. She just *had* to remind him that she's in charge...

6-year-old skid bit himself. Alert the media!

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Submitted by nengooseus on Thu, 05/12/2016 - 12:10pm

Infuriating BM is at it again...

So last Friday, Skid 11 got the news that she's getting an award for Safety Patrol. OK. Cool. There's a banquet and it's a biggish deal. When DH told me about it, I warned him that there would be some kind of issue with Skid 6, because Skid 11 isn't allowed to be the center of attention.

What is the hold that she has over them?

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Submitted by nengooseus on Mon, 05/02/2016 - 11:53am

Another post made me wonder this idea, but I didn't want to hijack...

What is the hold that these crappy parents have over their children that makes them so damned afraid of making them upset? I means seriously, Skids would walk through fire rather than upset their precious b*tch of a mother, but neither of them think twice about saying or doing anything to hurt DH. I know that COD are nastier to the parent they trust most, but what is it that these people are doing to their kids to make them understand so very clearly that they better not cross them?

My reward for encouraging DH to have a spine?

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Submitted by nengooseus on Fri, 04/29/2016 - 1:01pm

Is that SS6.5, PASd out since July 2015 is coming for the evening/night tonight. (If there were a sarcasm font, it would be used here.)

SS is nothing but a shell filled by his mother's venom and nastiness. He firmly believes that if he's anything other than ugly to me, DH, or DD that she will find out and she will treat him like she treats us. So this should be a barrel full of monkeys all around.

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