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After the big blow out with SD the other night, DH told me that she wrote her mom a letter. This is interesting because they are estranged and do not speak or see one another. BM lives far away and gave her up because she couldn't handle SD, is too lazy to work and is in and out of AA. She has never sent one dime for child support, let alone gifts. DH asked SD if she was thinking about moving in with her mom and she said yes.

A glimmer of hope, I think

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DH and I spoke last night and I told him that they only hope for us is family counseling. He and I talk completely past each other when it comes to SD and discipline. He informed me that they went for a ride and he yelled at her for 1/2 hour. She was crying and said she didn't understand why she is in trouble. This is all too familiar...each time she gets in trouble, she negotiates her way out of it with her dad and makes me the bad guy. I am so sick of this.

He's through with me...My valentine's day gift

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DH has been very stressed lately - about work, health, etc. In addition to having to cope with his perceived problems, I get to deal with his 16 yo daughter.

We were driving to work on VD day and he was complaining about everything. I told him that his constant complaining was taking a toll on me. He started screaming at me and said he was "through with me".