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“trying” vrs. “just being”

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So upset and confused right now I want to puke. I’ve been sitting at work seething all day listening to Nine Inch Nails and glaring at my wedding ring (off my hand sitting on the mouse pad… couldn’t stand the feel of it any more). I just don’t know what to do any more… it’s just two steps forward, thirty steps back and I’m getting so very tired.

*sniffs*

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So we’re in the middle of the WORST month of the allergy season (grass pollen is my #1 enemy followed closely by rag weed which is also in its prime!) and this morning when I woke up I was ready to die. SS6 has terrible spring allergies but he’s been ok since the worst of the tree pollen has subsided, but I’m in complete hell.

Why ask me if you don’t want my answer..?

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After two bottles of wine and an emotionally draining day DH and I sat down to a funny movie (Hot Tub Time Machine… I know how it sounds, but it’s a really sweet and funny film!) and the evening seemed to be settling into a comfortable groove… until the movie ended and he leapt into one of his “deep discussions”. Every time this happens I see it coming like a freight train but feel completely incapable of avoiding the impending crash.

Last nights talk started off with, “Don’t you think the boys have been acting weird lately..?

One Year Anniversary

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I’ve been struggling with some pretty funky emotions today.
DH woke me up with a gentile kiss and said, “Hey honey… know what today is?”, and I panicked. He has, like, 200 close relatives who talk on the phone every day and every stinkin month there’s some brother, sister, cousin, uncle, aunt’s birthday to acknowledge (I’m getting really good at color coordinating my calendar with different colored sharpies!) and I thought I had forgot a biggie….

Aww… THIS is why it’s all worth it!

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DH just called me at work and said, “I feel like I haven’t seen you in a WEEK (I’ve had some corporate visitors at work and we’ve been up to our eyeballs with take home work and office dinners out)! Can we pretend we’re Siamese twins tonight and sew our heads together… I need some close time with my wife…”

I just melted…

Pittsburghese n’at… ya know?!?

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This brought a much needed smile today... thought I'd share...

So I’m sitting here at work today and a fellow Pittsburgh ex-patriot came in to interview and we started jiving in our native language of Pittsburghese… n for yinz that don’t be knowin, it’s the dialect of American English spoken by many residents of Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, and surrounding Western Pennsylvania… ya’know? It’s a mish-match of Pennsylvania German or Scots-Irish… I don’t know… but it’s distinctly weird and instantly recognizable to anyone who grew up there.

And I got reeeeeeeeeeal homesick.

“That’s part of the trade”?!?!? Really?!?

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SS3’s giant birthday extravaganza was this Saturday… and all things considered (BM hosting in their old house together with all of her neighbors and work pals looking on at the “new chippie” in DH’s life) the party went really well! I’m starting to think that Mother Russia is legitimately trying to keep things friendly for the sake of the kids.

BM... my new BFF..?!?

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So SS2 is has his big third birthday this weekend and BM is hosting the party. I’ve seen countless posts here over the last few months on parties and what should or should not be expected/volunteered/pushed into doing as far as these situations go and I’m completely at a loss as to how I ended up in the predicament I now find myself in.

How I learned to be SO nice...

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Two delicate flowers of Southern womanhood, one from Georgia and the other from Alabama, were conversing on the porch swing of a large white-pillared mansion.

The Georgia peach said, "When my first child was born, my husband built this beautiful mansion for me." The lady from Alabama commented,
"Well, isn't that nice??"

The first woman continued "When my second child was born, my husband bought me that fine Cadillac you see parked in the drive." Again, the belle from Alabama commented, "Well, isn't that nice??"

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