Does anyone know the law on children and visitation. The oldest step child got caught skipping school and bringing a boy over...to her bedroom...enough said...so she calls up mommy deareast to come her before her dad and I get home. She hasn't spoken to her mother in months, you remember, the one that put a restraining order on me that I have never met..........they dont get a long at all and cops are always involved when they spend more than five minutes together....anyway...she is with her mom now and refuses to face us..her mom takes her shopping for new clothes and is happy feeling like she won some type of war....she wants to withdraw step child from the school we had to fight to put her in (2100 and two months of courts, lawyers and fees) and have her home schooled...just like that she lets step child run and hide and rewards her horrible behavior with shopping and letting her skip the next two days of school despite the fact it was finals...what do we do...is there anything we can do? It makes me cry...so much drama......can't believe we are here....can't believe she is seriously wanting to do this to us..........her mother is a horrible horrible person........