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Breakthrough happy time with SS10!

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Submitted by MommaSaSa on Mon, 05/06/2013 - 2:17pm

My SS10 lives with us full time since my DH has full custody. My SS's BM has been a disgusting mess since I met her when my SS was one. She loved pills, drinking and meth. Her parents have been the only thing holding onto any custody for that side of the family. They are amazing people and really good to my SS, and they just looooove my DH and I. They are the only reason my SS sees his mother.

Trying to Keep Things Postive <3

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Submitted by MommaSaSa on Mon, 05/06/2013 - 2:46am

Here is a blog update that I found uplifting and inspiring and *just* the direction I wanna go.

I don't think that we are all randomly step-parents in this life. I truly believe that we are all in this circumstance for whatever reasons- to learn lessons, to grow, to help kids that we didn't give birth to. There's a reason each one of us is in our step kids lives. As much as I complain about the petty stuff I have to deal with, I want to make my presence in all my kid's lives a loving and positive one....

I think I'm Super Mom to all my kids, until I get hit with being *just* the StepMom.

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Submitted by MommaSaSa on Thu, 05/02/2013 - 2:06pm

I've been "Mom" to my two older step kids since they were one and two. I have my own BS6 who can always make me smile. He is my safe place. The other two unknowingly hurt me by trying to make their moms happy- the mothers who neglected and abandoned them. I happily "stepped" in and try my absolute hardest to be a wonderful and caring mother to them. I feel bad for them and the situation they are placed in. And I usually feel really great about the job I am doing because they are great kids. But that is until their mothers come around and I am pushed aside like MommaSaSa who?