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Submitted by mmm1 on Thu, 03/03/2011 - 2:50pm

So we have two attorneys now. One for Utah where we have been handling court matters for over two years.
And now on in Wyoming where BM lives.
It is so hard having patience and trusting that the attorneys will do what is best.
Having faith to know that they will make the right decissions.

We have prayed and believe in our faith that the attorneys will do what is right, it is just soo hard to have the patience.

Why does BM punish Sk for talking to Sm?

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Submitted by mmm1 on Wed, 02/23/2011 - 9:48pm

My step daughter was talking to me on Instant messaging. All the sudden she said I cant talk to you. I asked if someone was telling her not to. And she logged off. I then got a nasty text from BM saying I had no right to ask that. Then she proceeded to yell and tell me that the SK dont want to talk to me or thier father and we need to respect that and not question them. Which is interesting because every friday SD11 and I talk on the computer. That has now came to a hault.

Secrets, lies and out right denials

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Submitted by mmm1 on Wed, 02/16/2011 - 2:23pm

Ok.... So history will repeat itself is what I have decided when it comes to BM. BM's Bm is actually very much like BM we are dealing with. They are both very controlling and say such mean things to others.
After careful observation of history on my journal of facts and contacts. I noticed that this PAS began when my Hubby and I got married. No matter what we are going to deal with the BM because of the children.

Really why is it soo hard to just communicate with Father..text it BM since you wont talk anyways

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Submitted by mmm1 on Tue, 02/15/2011 - 1:47pm

So we subpoenaed all my sk's medical records

After receiving them it is interesting that when the bm is asked what is going on she said nothing and even to the court said that SD11 is having medical issues that are confidential. When we received the notes today it says she has constipation. WOW how is that confidential.

Constant verbal and psychological abuse from BM it is starting to get really old

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Submitted by mmm1 on Sat, 02/12/2011 - 9:59pm

So we have some medical bills that we have to pay half on for the ss7 and sd11. Well BM sends us and email here are the amounts call the doctors office and give them your credit card number.
UM NO!
We need to see bills and what it is for. So we called and the doctors office said they keep giving the bills to the BM and she just keeps saying that we are not willing to pay our portion. After explaining it to the billing dept of the doctors office they completely understood, and said they were sorry we have to deal with this on such a complicated level.

Frusterated and sad

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Submitted by mmm1 on Wed, 02/09/2011 - 7:18pm

After a subpeona we recieved my schildrens therapy notes today.
It is sad to read they are reporting things that are very negative about me.
And none of it really is true. I feel really bad that they seem to feel this way.
But then I realized that they dont. Thier bm is feeding them full of bad information.
Some of the notes say things that there is no way a 10sd at the time could have came up with on her own.
Why can the therapist see that there must be something else going on?

BM... UGH!

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Submitted by mmm1 on Tue, 02/08/2011 - 10:17pm

BM just emailed us. 'have you paid your portion of Dr.so and so's bill. If not it is going to collections, you need to pay your half. LOl we have never seen a bill and we cant pay our half to BM we have flex spending credit card we use. Dr's office wont talk to us as she wont sign a release to allow us access to the doctors records. We subeonaed the accounts and they sent all records. But no records showing any bills were owed. It is soo frusterating. The doctor tells us we owe money, and they wont send us any bills but they will send us to collections.

Alientation? Whats best for the kids?

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Submitted by mmm1 on Tue, 02/08/2011 - 6:45pm

Ok so we know BM is alientating the children from thier father.
Courts are not holding BM accountable, the ss7 sd11 are more angry and upset then they have ever been.
As thier SM is it better to just let them go? Let thier BM have her way and we will see the children when they are 18.
Less stress for the kids, and less stress and financial burden? It is causing health problems for us, and my 2yr old daughter.

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