SD has spoken two words to me since my birthday fiasco. (She asked if I needed the hair straightener) SO talked to her and he brought it up to her in the car Wednesday when we picked her up from school but she STILL didn't apologize directly to me and just played it off. I didn't say anything. 

WELL... BM picked her up from school Thursday and dropped her off for lacrosse practice. THIS IS A FIRST IN YEARS! She was with BM from 2-5. SO isn't sure what they did etc... BUT...

SO picks her up from practice then leaves to help his brother with something. I'm in the kitchen and SD is heating up food blasting her FaceTime convo with this boy she's friends with... 

Let me tell you... what a turn off it was listening to it and I laid in to her about something she said. It was NOT SD. Talking about all this drama, SD saying "I hate drama and it's so stressful." To myself I was like you sound like drama...

This is where I piped up. They were talking about some girl and how she had two moms and SD goes "maybe that's why she acts the way she does." Guys.... this is sooooooo NOT SD.

I go..."SD you really should turn that convo down because you are NOT going to like what I have to say." I continued with.. "what you are saying is SOO judgemental and even IF this girl is an asshole blaming her actions because she has two moms is ridiculous." She just said "ok" and ran to her room. Like wtf. SO and I don't know what is going on with her.

Anyways... Friday she had a party and I was going to friends a hous but a chuckled to myself because SD was busting out the steamer to steam the dress she was wearing... I always do that for her... she didn't bother to ask me...

So! This is eating up SO. He thinks BM might have something to do with SDs new attitude and the way she's been... SO is going to talk to her tomorrow. He said he isn't going to allow SD to "ice" me. His word haha. 

I am not sure what to think. BM barely sees these kids (SS18 barely talks to her)  but it's f"n amazing the 20 hours a YEAR she sees SD how she creates so much tension in our house via text message/phone calls... mainly text messages. All the drama with SS19 etc. She is to blame for SOO much while not being present in their lives AT ALL. Her goal was ALWAYS to create havoc in our house. I truly believe that..