Last Sunday (the 15th) SS21 saw BM for his Christmas… SD17.5 saw her the 16th… SS20 hasn’t spoken to her (maybe a few texts)  and hasn’t seen her his past 2 birthdays and now 2 Christmas’s. She must be going away to their out of state house. Reminder she lives 4 miles from us. 

Now… I don’t want to sound boujee or anything but I feel as you get older you should mature in certain ways etc… food being one of them… I like GOOD food. 

SD went out to eat with her (and husband) and she suggests all these low rent (IMO) chain restaurants… SD said no to one so they went to another… SD knows what a nice restaurant is because of us. 

SS21 apparently went to her house (he told SO this) not sure if she even fed him.

Normally she gives them cash… but this year was different… she switched it up…. She gave them actually gifts…

SDs gifts….

• Dash cam (honestly best purchase she’s made for them) 
• DNA kit… I know most 17 year old girls have this on their list 
• Avocado wearable hoodie sweater 
• Gift card to Ulta.

BM is about 5/6 years late on the avocado thing… DNA kit??!?? SD said they talked about it a little bit once… 

This just shows HOW disconnected she is from reality and knows nothing about her kids.

SS21 also go the same dash cam… $50 on amazon. SD looked it up. 

SD also said that she said to her that “she is in therapy because she can’t watch kid movies without getting sad and thinking about them.” This is one of the reasons SS20 has stopped talking to her.. she just DOES NOT STOP.. with that BS. Every. Single. Time. Without fail. 

I asked SD why she doesn’t try and make plans with all of you (not sure SS20 would even bite) SD says “because she tells us different things.” AKA worlds collide… Seinfeld reference. I said 100% She hasn’t been around her kids all together in two years and prior to that was only once a year. 

When she going to realize her tact isn’t working and give it up? I’m going with never.