I'm just physically and mentally exhausted at the moment, so I'm sure that's why I'm snapping so easily. But have you ever had one of those weeks where a whole bunch of little things just add up to a big pile of crap that's dropped on your head? That's how I feel.

I knew it was too good to be true! BM hasn't "made waves" since a couple weeks before Thanksgiving, and the last sit down talk we all had actually went really well and involved some *gasp* laughing! BUT all good things must come to an end.

I feel like I need to "check" myself with you all. So Fiance and I are getting married Jan. 2011, been engaged 2 months, been together for over a year. DF and BM have been divorced 3 years. Scooty (SD5) started humming "here comes the bride"...silly me I was thinking she may be humming it for me (she loves that me and her daddy are getting married, she talks about it all the time). She said "no, mommy said thats what they played when she and my daddy got married, and she wore a white dress".

I'll start with the Low's (but atleast these low's are changeable, hopefully). So we had our sitdown talk with BM to discuss why she was all of a sudden blocking my BF from gaining joint custody of Scooty (SD5). Even though I hate to admit it, I do understand where she is coming from. Since I have come into my BF and Scooty's life, Scooty has been happier and healthier, BM has gotten more time to herself...it's basically been going well for everyone. BM is worried that if for some reason BF and I were to break up that things would "go back to the way they were".