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Return to Your Creator

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The tension in our home is thick this week because SK is "home." She is an annoying 9 year old who can't entertain herself to save her own life. My DH is a dick when she is "home" and I'm sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo looking forward to her return to her creator.

School Shopping, QT with Kids, and Disengaging....

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So a few days ago, I had a pleasant day with my bios, shopping for new school outfits (4 each), a nice lunch, and just good quality time with them. It's a tradition for us to do this. I specifically did it when the SD wasn't home, as I wasn't taking her with. It's easier, if you know what I mean.

Dark Clouds on the Horizon

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My peaceful, drama free two weeks is coming to an end. Just a few more days until sk comes back for the longest two weeks of my life. How can a child create such feelings in me? Honestly, she isn't too difficult or demanding. She rarely misbehaves (when she is alone with us). She just brings out these feelings of dread. She is so boring. For a seemingly intelligent kid, she asks the absolute dumbest questions. She states the obvious just to make herself seem important. Yet, just sits around like a robot looking for someone to entertain her.

CS Questions for 50-50

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1. Has your BM/BD been ordered to find a job? I think it's a capacity to earn or ability to earn title of some sort.

2. Has your BM/BD been caught in lie after lie regarding income statement to CS?
a. If so, what was the consequence? Was your BM charged with contempt, perjury, or charged for falsifying documents? Whatever the penalty may be, please list it.

Mean SM 1 --- Knowitall SD-0

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The past few weeks of having SD haven't been bad, but also haven't been great. Time and time again, I will hear "My Dad says" as if I don't exist in my own home, to which we have rules for all of our children. Same rules, regardless of child. So, in my disengaging efforts, I've let these little comments slide. Well, last night SO had to run for a few supplies. SD and I were home alone, and I inform SD that it's time to get her pj's on, and do her beauty routine, as it's close to her bedtime. I hear "My DAD said that I can wait for him!"

Vent...I need girl power please!

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So for the past week, I've been a depressed monster. With the help of a friend, I may have found us the perfect home (in my hometown)--see previous blog --halfway house. I am super excited about this because it's in the right location, has the right amount of bedrooms, and is easy access for SO to drive the extra 15 minutes in his day to maintain his current employment, while keeping our family together. I mentioned this house to SO, and got NOTHING. I told him a few months ago that I am moving, with or without him.

CS Review time...HELP!!!! Lazy Ass Deadbeat Rich Housewife of &*^%$

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So, a notice showed up that it's the three year mark, and it's time for a review. Apparently, the deadbeat BM has submitted her request for a review, as DH just received the Financial Disclosure papers. This is a woman who moved four hours south of us, works part time for cash (she declared this in the last custody battle), and shares custody 50/50. Wouldn't his (BM's hubby) then be considered her income?

Hello, don't interrupt The Walking Dead!!! (rant)

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For those of you who are fans of this show, you will completely understand!

SD was just a talking away, even after being asked to quiet down, and I damn near snapped! I finally had to go to a different room to watch TWD in complete silence! It is a huge pet peeve of mine to be watching a movie/tv show, and have to hear a person talk talk talk talk talk!

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