About a week ago, SO and I had a very serious discussion about OUR life. I've been so unhappy living where we do. We live in a town that is dead center in between our hometowns. My bios attend my hometown schools, and his SD is court ordered to attend school in SO's former hometown. BM lives about 4 hours south of us. They have 50/50 EOW placement. BM is required to maintain SD's schooling, and must make the drive EOW. She's not happy doing this, as she recently remarried. They fought it out in court, but alas, it's still 50-50. BM stays at a family friends house during her placement.