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Custody Modifications-Parenting Investigators..Your experience????

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Submitted by LaMareOssa on Thu, 05/26/2011 - 2:36pm

Do any of you ladies out there have experience with a change of cutody and parenting investigators?????

FINALLY DH is talking with a lawyer for getting SD out of the situation. He was going to file all his court papers himself and represent himself in court, but due to all the knew drama with BM and her continuous downward spiral, DH is consulting with lawyer to see if he should file an ExParte order or just a parenting plan modification.

BM might be going to jail (hopefully..finally)

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Submitted by LaMareOssa on Tue, 05/24/2011 - 1:45pm

BM is on an 18 month type of probation. She was chraged with Malicious Mischief and assault 4 back in the summer and was told to be good, with no criminal activity and the charges would be dropped. If she gets into trouble, she will serve 365 days for the assault and 365 for the MM. BM was arrested on the 4th of this month and spent the night in jail..the charges..wait for it...MALICIOUS MISCHIEF. OMG.

BM has court for the probation in June. Then another court date in July for the most recent malicious mischief.

Do you include your stepchildren in your bios special events?

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Submitted by LaMareOssa on Wed, 05/04/2011 - 2:38pm

After reading a blog a few moments ago, I was wondering why people choose to include or exclude children from their biokids birthdays, parties etc....

I have always tried to include SD in all of our gatherings, up until recently. I do this because SD is apart of our family and I know how much our bios love having SD here for special occasions. And it makes DH so happy to have all of his children together, in one place for a little while.

Do you include your stepchildren in your special occasions? Do you consider them apart of your family?

If not, why?

DH totaled our new jeep picking up SD. Awesome. Drunk Driver.

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Submitted by LaMareOssa on Mon, 05/02/2011 - 2:53pm

Ugh..something else! It's never ending.

BM sent DH a text last week. Said SD wouldn't be with us this weekend blah blah blah. DH told BM SD be at the drop off place at the right time or else blah blah.

Surprisingly BM's parents showed up with SD. On the way to pick up SD, DH ended up in a FOUR car pile up in our new(er) jeep. A drunk driver was speeding behind DH when he and 3 other cars stopped at the stop light. Driver didn't stop and totaled the jeep and hurt DH's neck. DH hit a car and that car hit the car in front of them.

I don't know what to do anymore

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Submitted by LaMareOssa on Thu, 04/28/2011 - 1:19pm

I'm tired. I don't want to live like this.

DH is suppose to get SD this Fri. for his weekend, but for the 3rd weekend in 1 1/2 months, SD is not coming. It's always something. She's too sick, she has a tummy ache, she has soccer try outs. DH gets a text from BM yesterday afternoon that said:

BM: Just a heads up, SD has indicated to me that she will be spending Friday night with me. She has soccer tryouts tomorrow(Thur) Fri and Sat.

....And speaking of haircuts!!!

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Submitted by LaMareOssa on Wed, 04/27/2011 - 11:34am

:jawdrop: BM does this almost every summer and it irks me.

SD came over lastnight for her two hour visit. And DD did tell her about our train ride, but SD didn't say a word about it. Good thing. So, I'm in the bath room giving BS2 a bath and SD walks in and says "HI!!!!" SUPER EXCITED. I turned around and omg-HER HAIR IS CUT OFF! Ugh. I could barely contain myself and I just said Hi and had to turn around before I blurted out something I couldnt take back.

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