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We'l sit an awits the drama
So once upon a time BM let her daddy beat her children. An OP was put in place for a month when the order was re-visited and a plenary order was put in place where the gpa can be around the kids (BM lives with her parents and they ramped up PAS to the level of stupid)However gpa by order of the judge who firmly reiterated and admonished gpa and BM that they should be caring for not harming children. It was made order he can't physically, emotionally or mentally harm or threaten or harass the children. He cannot infringe on their personal liberty.
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This weekend should be awesome and interesting
I'm gone all weekend out of town for a conference (I'm teaching a section so excited!) the college is paying for all of it (even more yay!) including the hotel! SO gets his kids for his week tomorrow. I made a switch with my ex and my ds will be also gone at his dads for the entire weekend, dd started a new job and going to hang at her dads as well. All SO has to do?
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I've done my time
I will NOT be held hostage to another persons young children period dot.
My kids don't require me to get up in the mornings and get them ready for and of to school, they haven't in 3 years (that would of made them 9 and 15) now at 12 and 18 (you know an adult who actually acts like a mature person) They set their alarms, get dressed, usually check the weather to dress appropriately and leave on time to get to bus/school. Not once has either of them NOT done that, woke up too late or missed the bus.
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Watching what can work
We went out to dinner last night with all 4 kids, SO's kids admitted they have NEVER been to a resturant besides Mcdonalds, there were a few moments making good food choices, elbows off the table but otherwise they we're really good and props to SO for expecting manners AND supporting my expectations without problem. SS was nervous and quiet the whole time, you could see the anxiety in him, my dd and I got him to talk tell us about his friend, and his week he loosened up.
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I have a lot to say
But it will require a bit of time to get it all out. everytime SO gets his kids it's more drama and BM harming her kids emotionally.
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It's all your fault we're homeless
BM to SO. Her dad was served with the RO and he kicked her and the kids out. Of course it isn't her fault that she didn't stop her father abusing the kids it's not her fault she told her dad to do it because she didn't want to punish them. What she also said was to ss she told him it was his fault for telling us that grandpa was still beating him that they were homeless and he'd never see his grandparents again.
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I can just feel the drama starting
Just before Christmas all the bs started with BM having her oldest make false abuse allegations against SO (that supposedly happened 4 years ago) investigator today told SO he's sure this isn't going anywhere. Now when this happened ss had also just told me of some abuse by his grandpa I told the investigator right then and there. SO also told BM that her dad was not to lay a hand on the kids especially with a belt she told him to mind his own business.
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So thankful I may cry!
The process to get ss evaluated started, doc agreed to do it and ss pretty much showed why while we were in the office. As we adults are talking to the doc ss is sitting there all calm as a cucumber mouth agape looking at the door. doc says "well he seems to do well sitting still look at him" kid didn't respond, SO say "hey ss" kid shakes his head mouth still hanging open "huh?" Doc starts to talk to him and he's playing with his shoes, pulling at his shirt playing with his hands scooting up and down the exam table pulling at the paper and then bouncing up and down.
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Wack job
Today is brought to you by a man who is wrong, won't admit it and wants to die on that hill. what hill is it you ask, the kids? BM? No. and ipod shuffle charger. That's right he wants to believe my dd's ipod charger is his. that we (she, or myself) lost her real charger which has a short cord and decided to claim his without a cord as hers. well no dear that isn't how it goes you bought a 4th gen ipod shuffle it came with a charger with a short cord between the usb portion and the portion that goes into the ipod.
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REALLY BAD LANGUAGE! NSFW
I’m going to rant, there will be a long strand of very foul language and name calling. BM has apparently helped her oldest (not SO's kid) fabricate abuse allegations (she threatened in 2012 to do this). To bad all those threats to make up these allegations were, recorded, transcribed, and documented. We also have proof of her dad hitting the kids with a belt (he apparently shares videos of him hitting them.)Without further ado the word vomit I will be spewing forth on this P.O.S. mother at my earliest convenience.
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