As a follow up to our breakup. I left XBF's mountain house last Monday and headed to my Airbnb. Once there, I reserved muscle (movers) to move my stuff out of his house in 2 weeks. I got a quote for a moving van. I disconnected from him on my Garmin cycling app. I deleted our group on Splitwise (how we shared bills). I canceled my Xfinity account at his house - he knew about that. I also changed my address on most of my banking accounts and other places that send me mail. I had a plan and was ready.

So, as is always true with life, you have to take the bitter with the sweet. Thankfully, my life is mostly sweet.

Since my last post, when my BF asked to put breaking up on ice, I have spent very little time at his mountain house. He's been busy with handling his mother's estate, and I have been preoccupied with helping my daughter get settled in the area. I've been spending a lot of time with my adult kids and my wonderful friends.