...telling him what he needs to do for HIS daughter. I am the one who has always documented important things for the custody battle. I have always had to ask him if anything improtant was said at the pick ups/ drop off's (he occasionally says "yes but I forget"). I have always had to ask him to write down important things or do it myself or else it dosen't get done. I have always been the one stressed out trying to get things organised for court and lawyer meetings. I told him I am done, HE has to take responsibility for HIS mistake. I am not the one who knocked up someone I had just started dating and I am not going to be the one who pulls my hair out over BM constantly being irrational anymore. In my last post I talked about how SD's weight has gotten to be a problem, DH seems to care but hasn't documented her weight gain or documented the numerous times that BM is buying SD junk food at the 7pm drop off's. I have documented her weight over the last month and I have had to ask DH everytime he gets home from dropping SD off if her mother bought her junk food and documented that as well. I was the one that told him that instead of just going by the growth charts that he should take her to see a doctor to have her weight assesed. He told me last night that he would take her today after he picked her up, has he taken her? Nope! Well I am no longer going to be reminding him of what he needs to do for his daughter. He created her and he needs to be the one to record things if he wants to get more time with her. I am officially backing off and if he doesn't step up I am not going to stress out about it anymore.
I feel more relaxed already