Well hubby and I went to go visit the stepdaughter at her house to try to resolve the issues she has with me face to face because hubby has said for a long time that if we go to her place where we are face to face then it is less likely she will be as hateful as people can be when they are texting or calling. We show up and pull up right behind her and her hubby and mine gets out of the car and tells her we need to resolve all this and she says no I don't and I am not going to and that she has nothing to say to me and that she doesn't want to hear anything I have to say.

I am not going to be victim to my stepdaughter and her shenanigans anymore,I am done. I will be civil to her if she comes around but I am done. Wanting her to love me and resolve our issues that are really her issues by texting and leaving voice mails to her with no response, is only draggin me down and not making me a good parent,wife,and worker and she ain't worth all that. I was letting her drag me down emotionally with her alienation. Shit on her, I know I am a good person and have been simply great to her from day one. My husband knows all this and he thinks she is being ridiculous.