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SD15 PEED HER PANTS.

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Submitted by jstorie on Mon, 04/20/2015 - 9:59am

So weekends that my hubby works,sd15 spends her weekends at her grandmothers. I was sick and asked her to pick up bs5. when your sick and all bs3 and bs5 do is fight. well it was too much. So she comes by and picks bs5 up and asks for extra underwear for sd15. I said no sd15 won't do her laundry. there are none. MIL says well she will go camando. I said what happened. She said well their just dirty. She left with bs5. When DH brings the two home. i tell sd15 to go take a shower get ready for bed. well i just took one... I said y did you take one in the middle of the day?

ONE WORD...WOW!

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Submitted by jstorie on Thu, 04/16/2015 - 3:06pm

Okay, sd15 has just decided she doesn't want to live with us. Counsler finally talked to her about going to a girls baptist home. I am for this and against this at the same time. Here are some reasons why.

PRO'S
DONT HAVE TO FIGHT AND YELL EVERYDAY
DONT HAVE EMAILS FROM TEACHERS-DAILY
DON'T HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT LEAVING HER HOME ALONE

CONS.
MY BOYS HAVE BEEN THROUGH ENOUGH. THEY LOVE HER
I LOVE HER
I HATE TO SEE ANYONE GO TO A HOME

Alot has happened since my last post. DH got a job... SD15 FULL BITCH MODE

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Submitted by jstorie on Tue, 04/14/2015 - 10:56am

Dh finally got a job. Took 7 months but he did it. he works 7 am-7pm. so its a huge adjustment. Im thrilled though. its minimum wage but i don't care....untill I get home on his daughter has the door jammed. When she finally opens it shes saying oh im so sorry i was cleaning.... (yeah okay what the hell did i just walk into?) So i take my shoes off take my scrub top off. im in my skanky tank top that i wear under my scrubs. and walk into the kitchen to start supper. YEP! there it is I run into another young lady.

I lost it.... im done... don't know what to do from here....

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Submitted by jstorie on Wed, 04/01/2015 - 9:29am

sd15 lives with us full time. shes a brat... i can't take it its all about her.
dh can't seem to find a job. he hasn't had one in about 6 months...its his record...i get it i try not to be petty about it but a family of 5 on one income of 9.00 is not cutting it. i can't do it.
and he lets the food stamps expire...we have no food...no money...

MIL SAYS TO DH "YOU DIDN'T FAIL AS A DAD...SHE FAILED YOU AS A DAUGHTER"

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Submitted by jstorie on Tue, 03/31/2015 - 1:59pm

I somewhat disengaged about two months ago, putting a lot of extra on DH. I have been put through hell the past 6 years.
we got along great at first then biomom who was supposed to have court ordered no contact and she showed up at her elementary school and spent the day with her even telling sd she was going to kill me. Things went downhill quick.

Need some advice....

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Submitted by jstorie on Mon, 03/30/2015 - 1:55pm

Heres somebackground on Biomom.

bipolar,shizo.

overdosed with sd in the bed when she was 3. Multiple convictions for stealing breaking and entry in 2012 was her last coviction for sneaking contraband in the jail. she is remarried.

judge ordered no contact.

Sd15 has been in the 3 phyc wards. one theraputic girls home, she has lived with her grandparents and a aunt and got kicked out of those places becuase of bad behavior. and lies on me evil stepmom.

in 3rd grade BM showed up at her school told her she was going to kill me. and get her back.

Why is it i get involved?! i can't STAY disengaged!

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Submitted by jstorie on Fri, 03/13/2015 - 11:38am

SD15. has failed all her classes all year long. we are on a new 9 weeks and i said I was going to disengage. But all this crap gets in the way of the family stuff. becuase we can't leave her alone by herself becuase she still and threatens to kill herself and blah blah blah. bullshit. So a week into it sd has 4 zero's I about came unglued we came to an agreement this morning that she would have the two zeros' turned in. That would bring all her grades up to passing! Great right.

the end to "I crapped my pants"

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Submitted by jstorie on Tue, 03/10/2015 - 8:48am

Sd15 had the stomache bug last week. at some point princess shit her freakin pants. it was snow days and i was at work. but i walked into her room and it stunk like hell. I told dh how much it bothered me we have other people in the house. it unhygenic. gross, unhealthy. i went on and on. Dh told her to wash them. grandmother told her to wash them. i said princess this is gross im done dealing with it. well Its Tuesday morning. this happened last wednesday. IM DONE. Dh obviously didnt deal with it. I went in with gloves. told dh and princess to come outside. i had her dirty clothes basket.

sd15 year old says "i crapped my pants" if you have problems with stomache bugs don't read this.

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Submitted by jstorie on Fri, 03/06/2015 - 2:05pm

Snow days. 3 of them. 1st day sd15 sick. I didn't really believe her becasue she took the wrong meds and the wrong time. I figured she was sick becuase of that. but whatever im not the stay at home parent anyway. not my problem. until later....

She was sick threw up several times. in a trash can 3 steps away fromt he toilet.

THROW UP IN MY BATHTUB! strike one

told my hubby to get it cleaned up. he told her too. thats stupid she threw up in the tub.

SHE DIDN'T DO IT. when i said do it now. she threw such a attitude. i almost came unglued... strike two.

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