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..More sister-in-law issue.

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I just remember the time when I was first introduced to my inlaws, I looked at my sisterinlaw's face when my husband introduced me to his family. She had this look in her face of disgust about the whole thing. Now that I think about that, I realize that she does have a close relationship w/biomom and the whole idea of me in the picture is just depressing for her I guess. I can't understand why she should just have told me that she is friends w/biomom when I was telling her all my problems. Instead of hiding the friendship behind my back. How would you feel if you were in my situation?

I need your help...Sister-In-Law hangs out w/biomom

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Is anyone in this similar situation. My sister-in-law is hanging out w/biomom? I'm a bit upset about this. I have expressed my frustration w/siter-in-law about the my relationship w/biomom, all problems. And yet I find out that they hang out sometimes. The children are cousins, going to the same school. How do I deal w/this? Sister-in-law never calls me up to hang out w/her.

Stepson is sick, biomom sends him to school?

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What is she stupid or something??? Stepson was sick a week ago and still sick today w/cough and congestion, but yet biomom sends him to school. Stepson is not fully recovered from his sickness 2 weeks ago. How is he ever going to recover when she sends him to school instead of getting rested at home? Biomom lives w/retired parents, why can't she have them watch him? Is she worried about his load for school work??? What the heck!

I have layed off the switching schedule issue...

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I will no longer care about what the visitation schedule from here on. It's just a wasted energy and I will no longer get stressed about that. I'll leave it up to my husband to handle that and I will no longer be a part for it fighting for visitation fairness. Ex will never change her irritating habit about setting/changing visitation schedule every month. She is just a low life, self centered B****. As long as I don't have to watch stepson, I will not be responsible for him.

...husband is a child too!

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I have to start separating my clothes from the main laundry stack we have. My husband puts all the clothes in the dryer and does not even hang up the delicate clothes... AGHHHH!!!!! Most of my clothes have shrunk cause he is suppose to hang them and not put them in the dryer! I feel like screaming...he is just another child that I have to mold, he is giving me a headache. I have enough duties as it is, working full time, a mom 24/7, he doesn't watch my daughter or do anything unless I tell him to. I just have too much to do and I don't have time to baby my husband.

When stepchild is sick?

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Just wondering how everyone's else's situation on this topic. Everytime my stepson is sick, he ends up at biomom's house no matter if it's our weekend. Why is that? Just like he was sick this past weekend, biomom called on Sunday and I was not home but husband was and stepson. I came home and husband told me that biomom picked him up because he was sick. I was like what, why? I feel like she can't trust us w/caring for him. My husband don't care much if she picks him up. I don't get it?

Do you ever want peace w/biomom?

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I wanted to hear your opinion on this. Would you ever want to have peace w/biomom and carry out a civilized relationship? A relationship where you can talk comfortably without thinking in the back of your mind that she is up to something evil. Or is this impossible? Is it just in nature that new wife & exwife just do not get along?

Had a good day w/stepson...

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My stepson and I does not have a close relationship, sometimes I feel he hates me. My husband was at a meeting and couldn't pick up his son. Yesterday I got the honor of picking up my stepson from school. I was anticipating a sad and angry face from him when he sees me picking him up. But I was wrong, he was happy to see me and my daughter. I was relieved and happy. I tried talking to him more and he was such a good boy yesterday, I couldn't believe it, he wasn't ignoring me for once! What a change.

Don't take out your frustration on your husband....

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Ladies, I wanted to just share with you what I've been through. Just thought it might help with what our next decision will be, what ever it might be. Since I was 12, my parents always argued about everything, at that time I didn't really know what was going on except that I know my mom just truly hated my father. I didn't know what exactly the reason why because they would fight about everything. As a child, I heard and saw everything that went on between them.

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