so spring break is coming up, 2 weeks. i ask biomom if we can keep ss for a whole week to spend more time w/him. she says she doesn't know and has all these excuses. when she wants to switch we okay it. what the **** is her problem? i don't understand why a mother will deny extra time to spend w/son's own father. we are so damn sick of her!

I know for a fact that my mother in law, sister in law are still in good relationship w/biomom behind my back. Why then do they still act like they support me when I complain about this woman? But behind the scene they talk to this woman and maintain a good relationship w/her? I thought that once divorce is final no more contact w/ex families period? I feel so stupid for telling them what we have gone through w/this woman knowing now that they are friends w/her. I don't feel like visiting them anymore. Please give me your input on this, I would really appreciate it.

I have this strange feeling (gut feeling) that my mother in law (MIL) prefers husband's ex wife over me. MIL knows that I despise this woman. Sometimes I ask her if she spoke to ex issues regarding SS she says no then later in the conversation she'll say things that only she would have gotten the information from ex....so I'm thinking huh? Like she lies & hides the fact that she talked to ex. MIL says things like ex likes to come to her house....like I don't or something. What do you think, I hate the idea that my MIL is even talking to this woman!

How can ex complain about not having enough money to buy ss clothes, school supplies when she receives child support money every month????? She is complaining that she can't keep buying him those things for him cause money is tight. She is suppose to be using the child support money $400/mo. for ss not for her stupid expenses or debts! Is she taking her frustrations out of us cause she is dead broke.....she is now finally realizing that she can't be spending her money on lavish things.