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This sentence embodies SD's priorities in a way a I never could

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DH and SD are on a vacation together.  They took pictures at a famous tourist spot this afternoon,....this is what I got from DH. word for word

Going to come back at night. She wants pics at night in "insert tourist attraction" and with her eye lashes on.

Yep..gotta come back because she needs her eyelashes on

 

Oh f*ck my life

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Now the dog is f*cking sick. Most likely he ate something while cooped up in SD hell hole of a room. I do not live like a freaking person hoarders but SD does. Just like her fucking mess of mother.  I have to go on a mission every week or so to find my damn dishes in her room. Not to mention the freaking wrappers and crap in there.  
 

kicker here DH and SD leave for a trip tomorrow morning and I'm stuck here dealing with the dog. 
 

Someone please take SD....my patients has run out

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Normally, I can pretty much let SD's antics roll off my back and normally when we have her for vacation ...WE ARE ON VACATION. So three weeks doesn't seem so bad..

not this time...she is at home with us....all the time

Ugh......

Given that she is at home..and I'm in the office she is supposed to "watch" the dogs. You know..make sure they have water, let them in and out, play with them a bit etc.  SD's version..trap them in her room all day so she can watch Degrasse High and play computer games.

anyone interested in acquiring another teenage girl?...NO...darn

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Ugh..so we have established SD is with us for 3 straight weeks.  

Its been interesting...

SD..sleeps till noon or 1 p.m.....DH usually has to wake her up...he usually has woke her up several time by then and annoyed AF.  Today he woke her up at .....gasp....9 a.m. to watch the dogs while he ran errands.  He threatened to douse her with ice cold water if she didn't rise when told to.

ok...so an update on my..SD and DH

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Stil hanging in there.. DH is still going to therapy on his own, we are still going to couples therapy together and overall I would say we are moving in the right direction. DH has had to come to terms with how his actions have now changed  a great many things.  Examples, most of my memories from vacations past are now tainted. As in...did he really have a good time with us..or was it just because he had time to  partake in his side life.

Last Day of school for SD and shocker..

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Beaver was late getting SD to our house for the bus.  Anyone shocked...nah...neither are we.  

DH took SD to school....only because he wanted McDonalds for Breakfast and NO he waited till after he dropped off SD so she didn't get any either.

The excuse...wait for it...MOM OVER SLEPT..she just couldn't wake up.

Seriously, I think we need a well check for freaking Beaver....I'm guessing now that Beaver doesn't have anything to occupy her time she is hitting the wine bottle(s) HARD.

Beaver's on a roll ....SD is PISSED

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In as the Beaver sleeps....SD has a job at the local food restaurant.  They sell baked goods, salads and sandwhiches and it start with P.  She works from 5 p.m. till close, since she is still in school.  Closing is 9 p.m. but as we all know...you have to clean BEFORE you leave so while closing is 9 p.m. you may not get out till 9:45 or so.  Its the nature of any retail position that has closing.

And to further my hatred of Beaver....she was late this morning

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Beaver has to drop off SD at our house to catch the bus. Its not hard..the bus comes the same time every flipping day....and Beaver works a mere 1.5 or 2 miles from our house (meaning she has to come here anyway..it ain't out of the way)....yet Beaver CANNOT make it her in time for  SD to get the bus at least once a month.

No message to DH asking if he can take SD to school...or that they are late.  Now beaver could just motor on and take SD to schjool..but no since that would make her LATE FOR WORK.  It then becomes SD's or DH's problem.

And we have identified that Beaver is half of the problem in my marriage

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as in the BITCH NEVER EVER LEAVES MY F*CKING MARRIAGE/LIFE.  I hadn't realized just how much I resent having that big fat orange tooth rodent in our lives...but oh boy did this weekend flesh that out.

This is NOT our weekend with SD..I repeat NOT OUR WEEKEND.  SD had to work Saturday evening..  Cool..whateves not our problem to get her to work.  

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