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Beaver has lost the ability to read...or well just doesn't want to

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DH does attempt to communicate with Beaver on a limited basis.  He will NOT  talk to her on the phone..but we send messages on Our Family Wizard.  OFW..was court ordered since Beaver likes to play the ...I didn't get the emai., phone, text message, smoke signal game..and OFW shows when it was sent and when it was read.  Has come in so handy over the years to combat Beaver's failed memory.  Beaver does not like OFW for the exact reason we like it...it prevents her from lying.

Well SD will not be attending any normal 4 year college

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In addition to the abismal grades..her SAT score came in...980.  That will not get her into any traditional 4 year school.  Just like DH has been saying.  I feel for DH..he is a smart man for the most part (except for relationships..he has no clue on those)....and to have two kids that are well...dumb as a post..is hard on him.  Neither skid got any of his brains....they are both just like Beaver.

 

So...SD's best bet is community college and then maybe transfer.

 

Wow that was first with DH.

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My steplife has not been easy by any stretch.  15+ years of constant drama from Beaver and the skids.  Its been never ending. For awhile we were in court with Beaver every year.  In fact in 15+ years we have only been out of court for the last 3 to 4 years.  

On Saturday..I had enough of the drama between DH, SD and Beaver and well just with life in general. I ended up go off on both DH and SD.  

Halo hit her limit of bs for today or shall I say tired of drama everyday

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Today sucked @ss and I'm tired of living in freaking drama.

Sd did go to the Dr for the "hurt" hip.  Diagnosis was a pulled muscle or maybe a sprain.  Nothing they can do about but take advil to reduce the pain and inflammation.  NO SH*T REALLY YOU DONT SAY.  So a $100 bucks and five phone calls from Beaver to figure out SD isn't dying of bone cancer or some sh*t.

SD has the injury dejour...today

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So..for the last few months SD has become quite compromised healthwise.

We have had..

1.  Sinus infection..which required two different antibiotics and multiple trips to the Dr.  Why...because SD didn't think she "needed" the antibiotics...it wasn't a sinus infection....blah, blah, blah..  MMM..hmmmm...once she actually took the antibiotics and finished them...magically the sinus infection went away.

Well that was an uncomfortable conversation and other updates

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DH and I were discussing the future..ie what is going to happen in the next year.  Dh has gotten a job off and is waiting for the final paper work and will start on April 1.  Woohoo on that front.

Dh is down to 13 months of cs left for SD...and he was discussing what we were going to do in the next year.

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