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O/T - Freaky phone call last night

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Last night I was laying in bed reading when my cell phone started to ring. When I grabbed it I looked at the time and saw that it was almost 11:00 pm and the call came up as restricted. I went ahead and answered the call with a hello. The person on the other line (male) said hey in a really wierd way. I didn't recognize the voice so I said hello again. He responded with the same hey in the same voice. I then asked the guy that was on the phone who I was speaking with and he hung up.

Is this even legal? Can BM do this?

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Okay....so let's start with what the CO states before I go on with the issue at hand.

The CO states that DH is awarded majority custody of both of the kids for the purposes of the earned income credit (EIC). There standard visitation is 50/50 (shared custody).

The IRS statest that when shared custody is involved and both parents share eaqual time with the kids throughout the tax year that the parent that has the higher gross income is awarded the EIC (which would be DH).

Why can't BM just drive off of a cliff?

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So we got both SD 8 and SS 6 for DH's b-day on Saturday. I really have no clue what goes through this lady's head, but BM had wanted to keep them for the weekend because she had forgotten that it was DH's b-day on Saturday and already made plans to take the kids some where for the weekend. DH told her no, that it was his b-day and he wanted the kids to spend the day with him. When DH picked the kids up from BM's house she handed him a b-day invitation for a b-day party for SD. Guess what day it was on? You guessed it. The same day as DH's which happened to be that very day.

I just don't understand this lady. A vent about BM.

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BM asked last mother's day if she could keep the kids overnight when it fell on DH's time. DH said that was fine but he expects the same in return to which she's all in agreement and of courses. Father's day roles around and he asks if he can keep the kids overnight and return them to her in the morning instead of that evening (exactly what he did for her). She replies back with ask the kids what they want to do. SS is 6 SD is 8. The last time I checked a 6 year old and an 8 year don't get to make or be involved in adult decisions.

Stage 4 Lung Cancer

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We finally got the news on my Grandmother's tumors. It's stage 4 lung cancer, they can't remove any of the tumors with surgery, and there's no way that they can save her.

She has been given 2 to 4 months before she starts to get six and a max of 6 months of life without chemo and maybe a year if she ops for the chemo treatments.

SD broke DH's wedding ring yesterday. I am livid.

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DH has been letting the kids play with his wedding ring. He calls it the one ring to rule them all. I've told him repeatedly that I feel very uncomfortable watching his 6 year old son run around with it because he can loose it. (This is the ring that I gave to him when we got married in the Carribean and I just feel that it's irreplacable and it's not just another toy for the kids to play with.) I made sure that it was made of tungsten for the very specific fact that if he ever caught his hand on something at work it would break, hopefully, before any real damage was done to his hand.

Will this hurt DH?

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Why are most of our BM's complete nightmares?

DH has been trying to get BM to stick to email contact only. Sometimes she will and others she won't and even when she does she's usually trying to trash DH or start a fight with him via email. There's always some sort of accusation that the kids said this or that to her. And if DH doesn't get to the email soon enough or doesn't want to answer it here comes the texts. I mean heaven forbit DH be to busy to check his email or just doesn't want to respond to. Nope. It's fight time.

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