So last night I began having SEVERE back pain in my upper back between my shoulder blade and spine. I had DH massage it, it didn't help, just made it worse. So I took some Ibuprofen and attempted to do that 'sleep' thing, yea didn't work. I woke up this morning and could not move at all without sharp shooting pain reverberating all over my back. I yell for DH to help me, and he comes in helps me up then says "SD is coming over today". If I wasn't in so much pain, I would have kicked the idiot in his loveknob. I looked at him and said "Have you noticed that I, your wife, can BARELY move let alone chase around your terror child? She is NOT coming over today, her scheduled night is Thursday and if I am not better you can have visitation at your Moms. But right now I could REALLY use your help." He helped me to the tub and the hot water loosened it up a bit so I am now able to walk but still have sharp pains all over, so I am going to the doctor. I feel bad for telling him no but I could really use his help today considering my immobility at the present time. I wouldn't mind if she came over if I knew he would care for her and not leave it up to me and if I knew I'd be able to rest without SD pounding on the door ever 15 seconds yelling "FADDDDDDDIIIING WHAT ARE YOU DOOOOOOOINGGGG?". Am I being mean?