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Searching the sky for flying pigs: DH stood up for me for the first time!

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Submitted by Elizabeth on Wed, 04/03/2013 - 11:27am

Dh and I have been getting along really well lately, and I think maybe he's finally seeing (after 11+ years of marriage) that I am overall a pretty good person. SD20 has done everything in her power to alienate me, push my buttons, and get daddy to choose sides. And he usually chooses her side.

Underage drinking on the job

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Submitted by Elizabeth on Tue, 04/02/2013 - 3:44pm

Oh, I am so tempted to turn SD20 in, if I thought it would do ANY good. DH told SD20 (then 19) that if he "caught her" drinking, he was going to stop funding her college. As if. First of all, he'd never actually DO it, and second of all I told him I have photo proof and he refuses to look at it. Third of all, he'll never catch her because she's five hours away. So whatever, empty threats.

No acknowledgment from SD20 on DH's birthday

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Submitted by Elizabeth on Mon, 04/01/2013 - 10:40am

Big surprise (not). SD20 did not text, call, Facebook post, send a card, nothing for DH's birthday. She did text him asking him to fill out the FAFSA for her college. The only time SD20 gets in touch with him is for money, even though he never sees it.

He did thank me for making his birthday special. I took our two BDs to get him presents and cards, then he and I spent the day together (kids were in school) doing whatever he wanted. I just continue to be disappointed by SD20, I keep thinking some day she'll pull her head out of her ass, but maybe it will never happen.

SD20's big head and tiny brain

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Submitted by Elizabeth on Thu, 03/28/2013 - 9:03am

SD20 is dating a man six years older than her who has six kids with at least three different women. Naturally people are saying things about this to her and in postings. How does SD20 react to this? Does she take their concern/advice into consideration?

Hell no. Instead she's posting about how people are "haters" and the only reason they disapprove of her relationship is that they want her and boyfriend to break up so they can have sex with her boyfriend.

DH and his "good relationship" with SD19

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Submitted by Elizabeth on Mon, 03/25/2013 - 2:44pm

DH maintains that he has a "good relationship" with SD19, even though we ALL know this "relationship" is based on money, i.e. how much he will/does spend on her. After this latest debacle of SD19 lying to DH to get money for a weekend away with her boyfriend, I do not "believe" he has given her any more money. So now she is "punishing" him.

For my bios, NOT for SD19

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Submitted by Elizabeth on Tue, 03/12/2013 - 3:56pm

BD9 recently got an old, discarded iphone that has been through several members of our family and was dropped, had the screen cracked, etc. She basically uses it to play games and surf the Internet (in our house), but she recently found an app that lets you text and email for free.

How NOT to parent (unless you want your kids to turn out a rude, self-centered, lying brat)

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Submitted by Elizabeth on Mon, 03/11/2013 - 11:21am

OK, so I told DH that SD19 is dating a 26 year old man with six kids with at least three women, one of which is an infant. A man who is on probation for assault. A man with whom she spends a lot of time drinking. I told him SD19 lied and got DH to fund her trip out of town to drink and have sex with said boyfriend (cried poor about how it was work-related travel and he bought it).

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