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DH texts to SD27

To some this may sound petty but it is really bothering me. DH has been in a pissy mood since we moved several hundred miles away from SD27 a few months ago. SD27 had her children taken away by CPS a few weeks ago. She sent DH a text saying she got custody again which is a complete lie. However, as usual he believes her. DH sends SD several texts every day saying "I love you" "I miss you" etc. Yes its not bad for a parent to tel these things to their children.

stressed

This situation is literally making me physically ill....i can't talk to DH because he sees SD27 as beyond reproach and blows up at me if i make any negative comment...i feel like im walking on eggshells...i do care about the grand kids...yes i do consider them grandkids...i took care of them from the time they were 5 weeks old..but i do realize that i am holding alot of resentment in this situation because of the way SD27 has treated myself and my BD19...and truthfully because of how DH has put SD as #1 from theday we got married...his opinion is that my children are evil and his are perfe

here we go again

Well SD27 had her kids taken away from her by child services..won't go into all the details but leaving a 5 year old unnattended outside for an hour in single digit temps was the straw that broke the camel's back...of course she tells DH only part of it to make herself look like "poor me"...truth is that she has been under investigation for weeks because of several other incidents and factors...DH doesn't know about all the other incidents and i'm not going to tell him because he won't believe me..in his eyes SD does no wrong..

anger

I can't believe that i feel this much anger for the whole situation..maybe its menopause but i can't remember the last time i felt this much anger towards someone that the mere mention of her makes me see red...i would love to tell the hubby exactly how i feel, but i know he will just have a big blow out over it...and side with SD..therapy would be good if i could afford it (lol)...i seriously think its going to drive me insane if i can't figure out how to let it go.

sd makes me see red

I literally can not stand SD27..i think what annoys me the most is the fact that my husband thinks she is perfect and my kids are evil...yes i admit my kids are not perfect...they have made me angry beyond belief as well...i recognize the fact that they do not agree with the choice i made when i married my husband and 2 of them have nothing to do with me because of this..however i have explained to them that i love them and want them to be happy but as they are adults and are living their lives by their choices, so am i...these 2 adult children leave us alone and don;t try to cause any issu

27 year old manipulative sd

Oh how i appreciate this site...have been reading on here and it helps to know that i'm not the one living in make-believe land...i have heard the "you hate my daughter" line so many times...i thought moving hundreds of miles away would help the situation...nope...she just uses that to make her dad feel even guiltier...the old "i'm here with my 2 girls all alone" drama...she is seperated from her husband and uses that every time she thinks someone else is getting attention...she also uses the oh poor me my mother died line...yes it is sad that she lost her mom...she was 20 when her mom died

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