We're down to like 17? 18? (too lazy to figure it out) days until SD goes back to university state. I can't freaking wait! She is moving into an apartment with her BF off campus, so there will be no need for her to come home for the summer ever again.

So she was over at the house the other day because she dropped the car of ours that she has been driving (she's been staying at MILs for the past 6 weeks or so.. praise Jesus!!!) off at the shop near our house to get inspected and oil change. Apparently when she got to the house she decided to make herself breakfast because the pan that she made eggs in, of course with the eggs all stuck to the bottom, was sitting in the sink. Guess where it is still sitting? I abso-fucking-lutely REFUSE to clean it. I mean who does that? Makes a freaking mess like that and then leaves it for someone else to take care of???? Oh that's right skids. There was also an empty 7-11 coffee cup sitting on the counter, literally 6 fucking inches away from the garbage, but again apparently that is way to much to ask of her to actually throw it in the garbage. Because I'm a petty bitch, I left that there too. DH ended up throwing away.

After she left, DH said she has decided to take the car we are offering to give her. I asked how she was getting it back to University state?? On our plates and insurance?? Of course that was their plan. I said no. NOT doing it. She can get her own insurance and get an In Transit Permit and then register, title ect. in University state. DH shocked me!!! He didn't argue and said OK, then that's what we'll do. We are also giving her the bed that was in her room, which DH unassembled last night and we put a new bed that we just got in there, as this room will now be a guest room and we are turning the other guest room into an office. DH said SD asked if she could have the entertainment center that is in there. I said no. I want it right where it is, with the TV in it, for the spare bedroom. Shockingly DH did not argue again!

DH told SD that if he gives her this car, that he will not be sending her $150.00 a month anymore (he was going to do this until she turned 21) as the car is worth at LEAST 3,600.00. SD told him that might put her in a pinch. This of course after she told DH that she thinks she has spent around $1,000.00 this summer on her 4 sisters (BM's other illegitimates) because she feels bad for them because BM and baby daddy #2 and #3 don't really do anything for them. DH told her that was her own fault, that she needs to learn to live within her means and that does not mean shelling out money for her sisters. I said where the hell does a 19 year old come up with $1,000 to blow on her sisters... ON TOP of all the money she's no doubt blowing on herself?? He said must be all her paychecks from her job this summer have been going in the toilet. Oh well, her money.. guess she'll have to figure it out the hard way.

I have a feeling that her getting apartment with her BF is not going to go well. This girl does NOT know how to budget money and live within her means and honestly, that is DH and GBM fault because they have never required her to do so. She has always gotten what she wants, when she wants it and it didn't matter whether she actually needed it or not, and certainly didn't matter if she had the money for it or not.. she'd just beg, borrow, steal until she got what she wanted.

Oh well, not my problem. I wish her the best because I certainly don't want her back in my back yard! :O