did I mention I love my DH?  So I get home from work on Wednesday night in a crappy mood and DH says he's going to pick SD20 up at the airport.  Ensue internal meltdown from me, as I assume that  means she's coming to our house for a "couple of days" as DH had previously said.  So I go inside and immediately start packing up and hiding my shit that is in the bathroom that she'll be using.  DH comes down to say goodbye.  He's keeping the mood light, which I kind of don't understand because he KNOWS how I feel about her being within 100 miles of me. 

Then I realize why!  He told me that she is NOT staying at our house that he is just picking her up and taking her to her friends where she is staying.  He also told me that SD told him that the airline charged her $150.00 because her suitcase was 5 pounds over the limit, and he was pretty sure she was angling for help from him but that he is not giving her a cent.  He said it's her own damn fault for not reading the regulations and again, he doesn't know why she felt she needed to come home for 3 months, when she still has to pay rent and utilities on her apartment in University state and also has a job in University state. 

I love my DH!  Now with that being said, I also think that SD did not ASK to come to our house, because after the nasty text she sent me she realizes that would be beyond uncomfortable for her.  I think if she would have asked to stay with us, DH would have wanted to let her at least for a little bit.  I told him I would certainly hope she wasn't planning on staying at our house after what she did, since she obvioulsy has no respect for me.  He said he's not getting in the middle of our crap. And I agree, there is no need for him to, SD is an adult.   

Oh and update on the gifting her the car.  DH and I talked about it last weekend, (actually talked nicely about it, no yelling and getting pissy from DH!) and we are in agreement that if she wants our extra car we will gift it to her.  She will need to have her own insurance, and will need to pay registration etc.  She will NOT be allowed to drive the car all summer, unless she has it signed over into her name and on her insurance.  I'm guessing that after paying her plane ticket, luggage fee, rent and utilities on her apartment etc and the fact that Aunt J said she also owes money to health services at University for some visits that she made during the semester that she does NOT have the money for insurance....but I guess we will see?  I could care less about giving her the car, I just don't want her driving it on our insurance and I also refuse to add her to our insurance.  She doesn't need a damn car, DH agrees, it's just going to get her into trouble, mark my words.  She'll be getting parking tickets, getting it towed, not servicing it etc. and will be lucky if she has it 6 months.  But whatever if she insists, let her find out the hard way. 

I'm quite certain there will be much drama to come, because there ALWAYS is with this idiot, so stay tuned!