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Sooooo MY HOW THINGS CHANGE & QUICKLY TOO!

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Submitted by committedstep on Sun, 02/26/2012 - 8:10pm

In my previous posts I have been seeking support surrounding the dynamics of my SO and SD16's relationship and the effects this was having on our relationship. I ended up raising issues with SO and was pleasantly surprised at his willingness to ease the frustration. He stepped up. The roll on effect of this happening however is that SD16 has now moved out and living with BM. While I am happy that I no longer have to deal with her dramatics and thinly veiled jealousy I really feel bad for SO.

Is it normal.....

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Submitted by committedstep on Tue, 02/07/2012 - 4:05am

So I'm sitting on the couch with SO & SD16 watching tv. SD has come and laid on her father and is grabbing at his hands etc. She is is asking what I have done with her daddy & where has he gone because he has offered to take my 2 bio's to macdonalds for breakfast in a couple of days while I'm at work. I replied jokingly that I had chewed him up & spat him out :? to wich she replied that I should stay away from her daddy! My SO untangled.himself from her and got up to make a cup of tea then came & sat back down next to me.... I felt like yelling before he did that.....

Apologies for yesterday's Rant & update.....

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Submitted by committedstep on Mon, 02/06/2012 - 8:48pm

Firstly apologies for my very full on initial blog entry yesterday. Possibly not the best way to intro myself to this site, but after a year of emotional chaos it was the first time I have actually let it out and I feel better! Thanks for the responses, and although confronting I now realise that suppressing myself is turning me into a powder keg. Last night I sat down with my SO and told him how I feel about our situation, SD16 and dynamics in the house in general. He was shocked to say the least and hadn't known I'd felt this way.