Okay so I am majorly ticked off at DH for taking out an 18000 loan for a motorcycle because I am trying to figure out how to pay 25000 dollars of medical bills for our bio son. He is overseas on business right now, and he keeps sexting me and trying to get me to have phone sex with him. No judgement on anyone who does it, but sexting, phone sex, and computer sex, any sex involving electronics is a major turn off for me.

Sd is obviously reality challenged. A comment I read made me remember another odd thing she won't accept. Her birthplace. When she was very small DH worked in Italy for a few years. She lived with him and COW there for one year when she was about one, and then DH sent her and COW back to the states because COW was cheating. So Sd tells everyone she was born in Italy. She even mentions it to Dh. He corrects her, "Sd, you weren't born in Italy.

COW tells people all the time that Dh doesn't send his child support. It is automatically withdrawn from his check, so I don't know why she says that. Anyways, every couple months he gets a text or something from of the skids about how they are about to be evicted, have no electricity, car is getting repo'd, have no food or shoes, etc, so they REALLY HOPE HE PAYS HIS CHILD SUPPORT THIS TIME. Followed by a comment like "mom did write this for me or tell me to write this. I thought of it on my own!" (Complete with the missing not or another error) anyhow Dh is getting sick of it.

It has been about a year and a half since we were notified that the child support case had been turned over to the court for review. Dh still hasn't been subpoenaed. So I wonder what the hold up is? SD has reached the age of majority now, but for years BM has been calling and swearing at us and demanding we send more money. We haven't had CS adjusted in ten years, but the CSS has been good. If we overpay we get the money back in a month, if the payment is late we get a notice within three days. I wonder if the courts are having trouble locating her.