cant win for losin's Blog
O/T (sorry) but beyond the end of my rope. *tears of desperation*
I have been around small children (many children) my entire life. The younger years are NOT a challenge to me. I am the oldest of 6 siblings (many years older) tons of cousins, worked in day cares, volunteer in schools, baby sat, etc.....In other words, I'm comfortable!
3 children of my own. Each one different from the next. Typical, I know. BUT this one. My youngest (now age 4) is my MOST challenging, and I just can't deal like I seem to be able to once upon a time. 
cant handle the truth i guess
Well, when the exh received his psych eval. (Daignosis: narcissistic)
He updated his Facebook status with the most stereotypical narcissistic type post one could ever say.
"Time to give up the fight even though i know im right and can win."
WTF :jawdrop: Hey dummy, im pretty sure that with your diagnosis, failed anger test, and failed parenting test, you had no chance in hell of winning. But hey keep living that narc dream!
So, what does someone do when they know they are right, and CAN win?
They drop their case!!!!
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I want to share this link website/blog about Narcisstic abuse....
I have read through a handful of blogs already. I think I am going to bookmark it. Sometimes it says things I already knew, but the way it is written is so simply put it feels like the writer is in my head.
Anyway, it just seemed like a good share for those who currently deal, or have dealt with a narc.
I'm about to dance with the DEVIL and FDH is more worried about HIS vacation! "My time is precious."
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OMFGawd...I GET IT OKAY!!!! You think the baby is ugly......now shut up about it!
I just seriously need to vent for a second. Sometimes fdh just doesn't know when to stfu! He doesn't have that filter to realize (actually I don't think he really even cares at times) of when he crosses the line of what he has said is (or has) become mean, rude, unnecessary, etc...
Ewwwww.....honey?
So, you know how its kind of irksome when you hear your SO call the skids "pet names"? Baby, sweetie, dear, etc... Lets not forget honey.
After countless times of over hearing SO call his preteen "honey" while on the phone, i finally said something.
One BIG thing about my SO is hes a mans man! And anything that isnt man man? Well, its just NOT manly, end of story. (Ladies if you have a man like this you totally know what i mean)
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did they turn out like you predicted?
The skids that is?
Either your ex-skid, or now adult skid, or whom ever...did they turn out like you predicted?
Maybe they are better than you thought, or worse?
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Loser for life...........
I have the ex-husband from HELL! I share custody (eow) and I will go to my grave regretting that decision. Several years ago when I filed for divorce I honestly truly in my heart thought that I was doing the right thing by my children by sharing custody with their father. I mean, afterall doesn't a child (or children in my case) deserve to see their father just as much as their mother? NO! NOT in my case. He is not mentally or emotionally fit to be around as much as he is. In a nutshell, he is a PASing piece of shit. narcissistic, mentally and verbally abusive. I think you get the picture.
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Totally O/T: Zumba
I love to dance. A few years ago I was hittin the gym on a regular basis. Running, weights, classes, etc.....
One of the classes that I started to take was Zumba. I did not get the chance to take it long enough to tell what the benefits of it was. (aside from cardio)
Fast forward to NOW....I cannot afford the gym. I am NOT a disciplined person to work out on a regular basis at home. But....I like to dance and want to do Zumba.
Any of you done it, or do it? Besides cardio, does it have any toning benefits?
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Do you think a marriage can work if you don't like his family?
I hate his parents. I know hate is a strong word. Some people say, "blah blah you shouldn't hate, blah blah" I say "there are 3 people I hate. My ex and fdh parents."
I don't want to go into extreme details about them, it would take up an entire blog, or two or three. In a nutshell, I believe that there truly is people in this world who are just ugly inside.
So, like I said I hate his parents. They know this, and the feeling is mutual. Do they hate me too? I dunno if they hate me per se, but they have no issue with disowning people, family members in their life, for life!