Thank you for your tips!! Sadly my SO took her door off and that was that and took her computer.....that's it no talking/no describing consequences...nothing. They ignored each other for the evening. To say the least I was disappointed as I felt it was a very important lesson to be taught.....Wow how sad especially when my SO rages when my BS15 leaves the light on or his clothes on the bathroom floor. Sigh I guess Disney Dad showed up last night instead....I am totally at a loss.

So SD15 got caught sneaking a boy in @12:30am last night. Taking away the computer and phone are NOT working. She just got them back last night after her last "stunt". You ST'ers are awesome what are some different discipline ideas that will catch a teenagers attention?

My SO and I are completely at a loss on what to do with SD15 and her attitude and mouth. She has no filter and is in a complete foul mood every day. She has been caught sneaking out, lying, having boys in her room. She tells her dad she wants to die, she hates him, wants to live with her mom. She told him he used to be nice until he was in a relationship with me. She always feels last next to me. Everything is about us and he would notice if he wasn't "whipped". Who says that to their dad w/o a face slap?