My hubby has to work today, but oldest SS actually texted him, posted on his FB wall and got him a card. Its taken many years but I think Oldest SS is really growing up and I'm proud of him for acknowledging his father, now the other one, eeh not so much, we can hope the future will change this.

I've been wanting a larger home, the one we have is very small, its 2 bedrooms livingroom kitchen bathroom and a small laundry room. no basement. When Stain was here before I really wanted more room. there isn't privacy here when more than my husband and I are here. We jokingly call it our detached apartment. I am SO thankful the house isn't any bigger. Husband KNOWS Stain is eventually going to want to bounce back here and since I get to work from home when I've been at my job for atleast 6 months I'm going to need that second room for WORK which means Stain can't come back.

Stain and his mom have been harassing my husbands father who is on a fixed income for money for a car. Stains mom has 160,000 dollars in the bank and she wants to rob an old mans social security income because she doesn't want to help her son but she expects everyone else to. We already bought stain a car, he didn't take care of it and he won't work full time so he can't afford to buy a car. He doesn't think his money should be for necessities, he thinks his money should be fun money. I just got off the phone with FIL who felt bad he told them NO, I told him he did the best thing he could.

Stain enlisted his mom in his campaign to get another car for him out of us. I bought him his first car. The car finally broke down due to lack of maintence on his part. He's going to be 21, he was told to bring it over when it started acting up, my husband was going to help him fix it and show him how to do oil changes. Stain does not want to work on his car or get dirty and he does not want to pay to have his car maintained. His car died.