I've been wanting a larger home, the one we have is very small, its 2 bedrooms livingroom kitchen bathroom and a small laundry room. no basement. When Stain was here before I really wanted more room. there isn't privacy here when more than my husband and I are here. We jokingly call it our detached apartment. I am SO thankful the house isn't any bigger. Husband KNOWS Stain is eventually going to want to bounce back here and since I get to work from home when I've been at my job for atleast 6 months I'm going to need that second room for WORK which means Stain can't come back. I've kept my mouth shut, its been husband who has been adament his loser isn't coming back actually he's harsher than I am with Stain now. I don't understand it because Husband and psycho raised him to be this way. I think my husband expected the adult kid to just grow up on a certain date without any parental guidance. Don't care what happens to Stain anymore as long as he's not harassing us or moving in. He deleted his nasty comments about me not buying him a second car off face book and one of his mothers friend (friends with us too) went on her page and asked her why she felt entitled to anything of ours and that she's been divorced for 5 years and got a sweet settlement. They told her she needed help. Shortly after that she deleted her nasty comments. She's blocked off our facebook accounts but I think she knows I am serious about pressing charges and filing a harassment suit if she doesn't stop her crap. Good thing is alimony ends at the end of August. Sept 1st shes OFF the payroll. I'm seeing the light at the end of the tunnel