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Submitted by building steam on Tue, 04/17/2012 - 8:05pm

Guess who called tonight none other than the older sd telling her dad she is emo. She has cuts on her arm and her mother took her to the doctor and actually is finally going to get her into counceling. Can you believe this witch knew this when she called and jumped DH about me explaining tampons this last summer and didnt say a word about that. That was over a week ago that she called and not one word was mentioned about her cutting herself but wanted to make sure DH knew they wasnt going to be able to come up this summer because of me talking life with the 12 year old.

In-laws on my side YES!!!!

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Submitted by building steam on Sun, 04/15/2012 - 10:35am

My DH was talking to his dad and they got on the subject of the kids. DH told his dad that he wasnt going to get to see the kids this summer because I had help the older one understand the life of tampons when she was here last summer and the BM didnt like it. DH also told his dad he asked me to apologize for talking to her about this and HD's dad blew a fuse. He told DH he had no right asking me to do that and now he felt that DH owed me an apology. That if BM wanted the sd to use certain things she should have sent them with her it wasnt my place to fill in when the time came.

Holy Cow were does it end

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Submitted by building steam on Sat, 04/14/2012 - 5:23pm

Well its only getting better. Not only am I having to deal with a crazy BM and Skids but also a SM. I have been staying out of my dads issues because he is a grown man and made his bed now he is having to sleep in it. BUTTTTT WOW I so pray for my Dad he really has got himself in a big mess too.

Losing all desire

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Submitted by building steam on Sat, 04/14/2012 - 9:15am

With all the issues that are going on with sd's I am almost to the point I really dont care if they come to stay with us this summer or not. It seems like NO it is everytime they return home the ex tends to find something that went on is not what she likes.
Well, she has never stollen from a store when she is with us. She has never been allowed to throw grapes at cars passing by. She is not allowed to choked her younger sister when she is here. All this happens in her mothers home.

totally feed up with ex-wife

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Submitted by building steam on Thu, 04/12/2012 - 12:46pm

I have tried and tried again these past two years that I have been with the DH of the ex-wife. We never have disagreement until the ex-wife starts stuff. This last summer we was suppose to have his two girls for a week that ended up being a month and a half. I was perfectly fine with them being here because he never has a regular visiting time with them, itS when ever their mother is tired of them and wants someone else to have them. TRUST ME ITS A LONG STORY NOT ENOUGH SPACE TO PUT IT ALL.