Losing all desire
With all the issues that are going on with sd's I am almost to the point I really dont care if they come to stay with us this summer or not. It seems like NO it is everytime they return home the ex tends to find something that went on is not what she likes.
Well, she has never stollen from a store when she is with us. She has never been allowed to throw grapes at cars passing by. She is not allowed to choked her younger sister when she is here. All this happens in her mothers home.
With the recent issue of her stealing from a store I really dont know if I can trust this older sd in my home. My DH is very sick right now and I dont want the total responsibility of this out of control young disrespectful sd. Dont want to hurt his feeling but I want to wash my hands of the older sd. The younger one is somewhat okay she too has issue of lying all the time too. I dont know maybe I need to leave while they are here but yet I dont want them going through all my personal things and maybe taking some of them. Oh brother this is a mess.
DH sleeps most of the day and I really am in a fix here. I have worked with kids since I myself was 14 from babysitting to teaching Sunday School to sponsoring youth camps and I have never had to deal with such rude, disrespectful kids. I had three of my own and they were never allowed to speak to adults the way my sd do. So glad mine are grown now so the sd dont spill bad influence over onto my them.
Thought I might suggest since DH is under doctors care right now that it would be best that they not come.
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Thanks I agree but he thinks
Thanks I agree but he thinks he can take care of them. wow, he cant work and sleeps 16 or more hours a day. How is it that he can watch a 13 and 10 year old destructive machines while I'm at work.
I may sound like I run a tight rope here but I dont allow the sd to stay on the computer or watch t.v 24/7 they have to go out side and play or ride their bike and so forth. We live in the country so we dont allow them to ride off to far only within eye sight of the house if we arent riding with them.
He thinks they can watch themselves while I'm at work lol. Not at their maturity level no way they will have our house destroyed in one day. They have no respect for other or property of others. Also now that I know the older sd has been stealing from stores sorry I dont want to leave her one minute without an adult with her slapping her hands and telling her no thats not yours lol. wow seeds we plant and rip so glad I can say I had no input on planting this seed. Both sd is going to be a real challenge.
Yeah, I agree with this. To
Yeah, I agree with this.
To the OP: does DH have any family who could help you and take care of the kids?
Also, an anonymous call to CPS to report BM may be in order...she sounds like a negligent parent at best.
Oh finally I'm not going nuts
Oh finally I'm not going nuts lol. Thank you anon2009 and everyone else. Oh trust me I have wanted to contact the CPS but she works for the court system with a dishonest judge and all and trust me she has more connections under the table than the President does. HONESTLY. I could tell you things that would make your skin crawl that she has done to DH and his family. Very evil person.
All of his family live over four hour drive from us. I have my family here but non of them will dare watch them first of all I couldnt dare ask my family too because of all the drama the older sd starts. The ex insists that DH has to be with them at all times lol. I asked once if that included the bathroom too. She didnt think to kindly of me for awhile but at this point who cares.
For my own protection of any more drama being made up I think I'm going to insist on them not coming. With all things considered and for my own safty I thinks its best. She is teaching the older sd to be just like her with all the mind games.
You, your DH and his kids are
You, your DH and his kids are in my thoughts and prayers.