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Submitted by bonusmom on Fri, 06/08/2007 - 10:19am

Someone tell me if this is crazy...I was just looking at pics from my wedding in which we invited bm and for the first time I realized she wore a white dress it appears to be off white but still thats kinda weird...its not really a big deal I mean it was over a year ago...just wanted to know if anyone else thinks its f'd up...

BM makes me sick to my stomach...

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Submitted by bonusmom on Mon, 05/28/2007 - 8:40am

Okay so BM was nice enough to meet my mom on Wednesday so that we could have sd for the weekend, or should I say she had big plans for the weekend so she was bound and determinded to get rid of sd some how even if it meant making things easy for hubby and I...she even told sd on Saturday morning that she would meet us where ever we wanted on Sunday to pick her up...RIGHT...We knew better than that crap...So Sunday morning sd called her mom to see if she could meet us about an hour from her house...(we live 4 hrs away from bm and we were already about 2 hrs out of our way) she asked to speak

I think my marriage is coming to an end....

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Submitted by bonusmom on Wed, 05/16/2007 - 9:46am

Today I am crushed, I never thought being married I would feel so alone...I am at the end of my rope...My hubby and I have been together 4 yrs married 1 and I have to say things have just gotten worst with time the past 2 months have been hell we have done nothing but argue about everything mostly crap with bm and sd of course and I am finally giving up on the fight I have nothing left to fight with and if I don't do something my marriage Im affraid will end...

I'm done...

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Submitted by bonusmom on Sat, 05/12/2007 - 10:38am

Well the other day I spoke to bm regarding sd starting her period, I wasn't going to worry about what she thought but I brought it up any how...I asked her how she would like me to handle it if she happens to be with us when the big day comes she said "I trust you, just don't get her those huge things, and I don't sugar coat anything" I then asked so have you discussed this with her is she aware of how things work she just responded with "she knows a little bit" SO...I guess I should handle the situation how I see fit, from now on Im done asking her opinion she clearly doesn't have one unle

how do you stop having hate for bm???

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Submitted by bonusmom on Wed, 05/09/2007 - 11:31am

I've been thinking about things lately and I have come to the conclusion that I have alot of hate in my heart for bm, I can not stand this woman...and it's only making me miserable its amazing how a simple voice mail from her can jack up my whole day...everytime I hear her voice I want to vomit and when I have to see her face to face my skin crawls...I am very nice to her but its the hardest thing in the world to do...I just want some advice on how to stop feeling this way...she causes way too many arguements with hubby and I...At this point Im feeling defeated like Im letting her win, she

My husband says I expect too much...

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Submitted by bonusmom on Fri, 05/04/2007 - 11:51am

So last night I asked my husband if he thought sd would remember me on Mothers Day...He said I expect too much out of her...she is 10yrs old...but last year she got me a gift and made me several cards...alot has changed since then her mother and I no longer speak to each other and sd has been very distant towards me since about 3 months after hubby and I got married...which was 1 yr ago mothersday actually....Do you all think I am expecting too much..??

WHAT DO BIOMOMS VENT ABOUT???

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Submitted by bonusmom on Thu, 05/03/2007 - 10:31am

HEY DOES ANYONE EVER WONDER WHAT THE BIOMOMS VENT ABOUT, I MEAN WE ALL BITCH AND MOAN ABOUT BIOMOMS ALL THE TIME...ITS FUN AND IT HELPS..BUT DO ANY OF YOU EVER WANT TO KNOW WHAT THEY THINK, NOT THAT I REALLY CARE BUT IT WOULD BE NICE TO OTHER SIDE OF THE STORY...MAYBE IT WOULD PUT A FEW THINGS IN PERSPECTIVE, I WOULD LIKE TO FIND A SITE FOR BIOMOMS JUST TO SHED A LITTLE LIGHT...

WHEN WILL IT END..???

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Submitted by bonusmom on Thu, 05/03/2007 - 9:28am

I haven't been here for awhile hubby and I moved to a different city and started new jobs and what not....my life is finally getting back to normal even the crap from the ex...so the story goes...I got home from work and checked my messages and of course the one voice no one wants to here the EX>>>she left a message for my hubby to call her as they needed to talk she wanted to give us prices on dance classes for sd...which is a whole issue for me because about a year ago we offered to pay for dance class the only thing I asked for was for biomom to either pick up or drop off, appar

I believe bio mom is making sd hate me

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Submitted by bonusmom on Thu, 10/05/2006 - 6:25pm

Well today I got home and hubby was not home from work yet so I checked cid and saw that sd called but did not leave message which is a little strange she usually leaves 3 or 4 in a row...anyway I spoke to hubby and he will not be home for awhile so I took it upon myself to call sd to make sure everything was ok and to let her know that I would have her dad call her when he got home...Ofcourse biomom answered she said "whats up" I said "not much is sd around" she replied in snotty way "she wanted to talk to her dad" I paused then she said "is he going to her school thing tomorrow?" I said "

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