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Hello

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I haven't posted in a long time....but I am so frustrated and disappointed this weekend that I need to vent.

New ladies out there that are just getting in the situation that most of us are in - RUN, RUN, RUN as fast as you can. There are thousands of wonderful man out there without a package. Things don't ever get better - pkease don't fool yourselves like I did (and others).

If I only could do it all over again.....I wouldn't be blogging here. Hugs to everyone.

Family Counseling

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A week ago, BM sends DH an email saying that she has arranged for the kids to attend family counseling and if DH wanted he was wellcome to attend as well. He replied immediately saying that he was 100% on board and he asked about the name of the therapist, when are the sessions scheduled and if BM would be so kind to let him know in advance and also if possible to arrange with his calendar as well. She responds the next day giving the name of the therapist, the city of her practice and tells DH that she is arranging with the therapist schedule and not his.

Fiance's b-day

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hello ladies:

So next monday is my handsome fiance's b-day so i sent an email to BM asking if the skids could spend the night that day. She replied that we could drop them off at 9:00 p.m. istead of 7:30 p.m. to allow for extra time. I was happy with the outcome even though i didn't get what I wanted. I will not start a figh with her. So I respond by thanking her.

Addendum and Modification Agreement

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We just got a fax from our lawyer with BM's response to our draft modification agreement. I WANT TO CRY. I really do. SHe is such a despicable human being. She doesn't agree to alternate weeks during summer, she doesn't agree to any transportation, she wants us to return the children to her on Sundays because we dropped them off late to school twice in the last 4 years...WE CANNOT WIN with this animal. We have a meeting with our lawyer today at 2 and I don't think I can go...it's too much I am so drained and hurt and upset. Thanks for reading to my whinings.

I am new at this...

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Hello.

I am new at this. I decided to join because I have been feeling very stresses and depressed lately. I am a stepmother of two boys 13 and 11. My fiance's ex-wife is trying really hard to break our relationship. I feel that my friends do not understand me much because they are not in the same situation. I love my fiance and his kids but lately I am wondering if it's worth it to go through so much pain. Thank you.