Husband corrected me in front of stepson
My husband and I have not been getting along lately and tension has been high. My 13 year old stepson and I have a great relationship and spend a lot of time alone hanging out while his dad is at work. He had ADD and in conversations often interrupts and tries to finish my sentences. It gets brought up and he apologizes and we move on. Last night at dinner he did it again and I frustrated said go ahead finish my sentence you already know the answer (and there was some sarcasm in my voice.) He apologized and we dropped it. A minute later my husband in front of him tells me that he doesn't think he was trying to dominate the conversation, he was only trying to engage and I was taking my frustration out on him.
My issue is not that he had that opinion but rather that he brought it up in front of his son. I felt undermined and disrespected by my husband. I told him in private that I would like him to talk to me about that stuff in private. He didn't agree and said that he wanted his son to know he was sticking up for him. His son and I have a perfectly healthy relationship and I don't feel there was any need for this. I'm still pretty hurt and upset. Has anyone had similar issues? Am I overreacting by feeling this way?